Last Sunday day 2'd lunch w/ an 8 from class. Came back to my place (which she loved), we madeout, but she told me I was too much of a player for her even though she later txted me she had fun. Tried to get her skip & roof it w/ me Tuesday b/c it was 60 degrees, she declined b/c she already missed the previous week w/ the flu. She initiated Thurs asking me where I was in class and I told her it was my bday. She sent 2 separate texts an hour 1/2 apart saying congrats and then asking where the celebration was and I didn't answer either. Txted her today to take me to lunch to help cure my hangover and she sad "ur a character, maybe another day". Pissed, I responded with a simple "nah" and the convo ended.

What's next to swing a day 3??

20 views & no help? Help me out here guys!

There's a difference between being non-needy and being an ass.

Here's basically what you did:

"It's my birthday today!"
her: "CooL! where's the celebration at?"
"Oh, you're not invited."
...
"Wow, I had a great time last night. Oh that's right, you weren't invited. Well lets go to lunch"
her: "F-U"
"F-U too!"

Your best bet would be to leave her be for a while, until she forgets about this. You aren't getting a D3 anytime soon, sorry.

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hmmm maybe you shouldnt have been a dick...


maybe that whole celebration thing she was wondering about would have been the day 3...

u can recover, but i dont really feel like helping you cause ur coming off as a complete ass in ur messages...but then again i just dont really care though so...


heres what u do. u send her a message like "why didnt you respond to the messages i sent you the other day?" she'll be like huh?* and then remind her of ur last convo about her taking you out. she'll be like "u told me no" and then u be like "yeah but after that i sent you some messages saying i'll take you out to a nice movie after my hangover wore off"

she'll be like "i didnt get that" then be like well of course i wouldn just say no and end a convo like that... you know i've been feeling you"

then im guessing there are 2 kinds of responses u'll get. either a she'll blow u off or b she'll try and test ur "feelings" for her.

*if after you remind her of the previous convo she says something like "i was busy" or "you didnt seem to wanna talk" then think up ur own responses

LONG STORY SHORT... SHES IN ONE OF THOSE FUCK YOU KINDA ATTITUDES CUASE YOU WERE BEING A FUCKIN DOUCHE SO YOU NEED TO KINDA KISS UP TO HER. OR YOU CAN KEEP BEING LAME AND NOT GET ANY PUSSY

Ive been called an asshole multiple times by girls who've Ive hung with, all of who were interested at the jump. Though it's not on purpose Ive had some success with it, but it's cost me MLTRs & fixing that is a big reason why Im on here.

There's a chance I'll see her in class tmrw, anything I should say to her in person different than what was recommended to text??

Lastly, best way to combat the "player" objection? I have a feeling she'll use it as a crutch. Something like "Im not gonna totally change for you, but youll have the best timw w/ a player youve ever had"?

The truth will set you free...In my situations, if I actually like the girl and I was being too much of an ass, ill let her know. Show her that hey, you understand when your being a dick and that she didn't deserve that kind of behavior from you.

My 2 cents

1. Im not a "sorry" person. 2. Recalling the events with her never backfired?

deny till you die is what i say... and being a player is not a positive thing no matter how u spin it