First of all, this is a semi-long post. I put in every little detail not only to give you the entire backstory, but also to show you the transformation I've made in such a little time for gaming. And to think, I'm such an amateur right now, Ican't believe what I can (and anyone for that matter) be capable of once I master all facets.

Alright, let me preface this little story with a feelgood story of my own.

Before I started looking into the game (about 2 months ago) I was horrible with girls. I was always open and funny around friends, but I would clam up like a shy little wimp around any girl I didn't know, attractive or not. Fast forward to now, and I have the approach confidence of a king. Example:

This past Thursday was a bid day party for our new rushes (I'm in a fraternity for those that don't know). At said party, the girls that showed up consisted mainly of two sororities. One of which I previously tried to set up a "date" with during the week prior but never went through since our schedules conflicted. Here's how the party went.

For some reason I was on fire at beerpong as was my partner, so from about 5 minutes after arriving at the party to the time I left, I was on the table the whole time, didn't lose once. Killer for social game? Absolutely not, actually the opposite.

I realized that I was recieving social proof out of my ass the entire night, and it turned every single girl on at that party to me. I started to heat up and girls would tease me or compliment me, I would act like I didn't care and tease them back.

The girl I tried to set up a date with the previous week was the first victim of my tenure at this party. She came over and hated that I was semi-ignoring her because of the pong game. She flirted relentlessly and even stood by and waited for me at times. Still haven't number closed, but that will be done at this mixer.

Next was a girl I thought I had seen around that came up to me at the table. I made eye contact and without hesitation at all (would have never done this a couple of months ago) said, "I definitely know you from somewhere." to which she responded "Yeah, you're Adam." I had no idea of her name, but conversation went well and flirting was there too. Number close will happen at mixer as well.

Now throughout all of this, this girl was teasing me every game all game for missing a shot/making one. I finally called her out on it and she flirted as well. Long story short, number close.

At this point I had to use the bathroom, and while waiting in line, number closed another girl in less than 3 minutes! I was actually shocked that I did it.

Now comes to the most important. I like this girl the most out of all I met at hte party. She came up to me and my partner and said "We (her and her friend) could kick your ass in pong." I was having none of that and said show me your skills punk. Game went on and they had us down to one cup while we had 4 of theirs left. Every single shot I took she would scream my name and show me her cleavage it was actually pretty funny. So I walk over to her and say "Ok, if I win this game, you give me your number. If not, you can tease me all night and I'll take it without complaining." She agrees, and needless to say we beat her. She puts her number in my phone.

I text her an hour later with "Jerk =)"
HB: Ammm not!! We are playing again one on one (suggestion of future plans, and one on one.... IOI??)
Adam: You gotta work for my attention im not so sure about you
HB: Whattt why not?
Adam: Do I need a reason? Cuz I said so =)

No response after that, but seed planted i think. I text the four numbers I get the next day saying "Hey, it was nice meeting you last night hope you had a good time."

One did not respond, two said "Definitely! it was nice meeting you too." And the HB from above said
"Yaa!! We need to have a rematch!"
Adam:"Haha already? stop trying to get me drunk again so you can take advantage of me"
HB: haha no i was just trying to beat you
Adam: Oh well your not really on my level of beer pong yet but you can keep trying
HB: I'm pretty sure we almost beat you
Adam: Ya whatever you say
HB: Yup but next time its on

I dont talk to her for a day, then text her and another girl i met at the party "Hey what're you doing tonight". One said "going to a club" and the one i like said "im actually home." I said "oh ok, wanted to see if you wanted that rematch" and she said "next weekend"

Long story short, all of these girls I talked to are in the same sorority at this same event this thursday (basically everyone gets really drunk and gos to a bar together, hook ups should ensue but I can never close). I would REALLY like to close this girl I like, but if that's not the case, I would like to close any of the other girls I met that night. Should I try and set up a lunch "date" this week before it, or just freeze all of them out and see them Thursday night?

Bump, I guess I confused some with my long rambling post. I really just wanted to report what happened at the party, and then ask for any suggestions on how to close one of the girls I met at the mixer, preferably the one I like (we need a rematch girl). Thanks for your help.

I like where you are going with this but it's a frat party, you're allowed to be as forward as you want. The two times I've been to a frat I k closed and could have f closed had I remembered my license to get into her dorm and the next time I did f close a different girl. I would just go for more kino escalation and move in for k closes at least

True. Well, wish me luck, about to go out to the mixer now. Hopefully it'll be a long night

Dude don't worry about it you should be set. If these girls are in the same sorority or at the same party they will all be jealous of eachother and competeting vicously with each other. Beer Pong a definate plus...but it always always depends on what the situation is around you. If your making a big deal and people are screamin and watching you its a def plus. If not then it means the party is somewhere else and you have to bounce. But playing against a target or with a target builds up comfort and memories. Unfortunately my college years are comming to a close but, heed this advice beer bong on the same team as your target, if the interest is already there, is a 99% chance hookup. Good Luck tonight man

Okay, just got back so good news and bad news. Good is that I worked a lot of sets and routines, solidified my socialness.

Bad News.

Two of the four girls I planning on gaming I found out had boyfriends, so no go with them. One of them (the one I played pong with and really wanted to come out) couldn't come out because she had a test the next morning. I teased her about it a bit, and said I'm calling her this weekend, she said "I might come out but i have 3 tests next week so I'm going all out next weekend" to which I responded "haha ok, your loss" and she had no response. So that left one girl for the night to run game on.

I started off very well, she saw me and hugged, we talked for a while, I left her. Found her at the party and talked for a while, was escalating a bit, so I bounced her to an isolated location (though it was where everoyne could see, was just me and her). Talked for a while, ran through some routines and she loved them. Did the cube, liked it, did the ESP (1-4 and 1-10 number guesses, to which I got both right and she was amazed). Then I ran strawberry fields (since we were well into A3, did bait hook reel release, and a few others) and I think she wasn't feeling it. I finished and she got kind of cold and wasn't talking much anymore. I called her out on it and said "you're so shy, i feel like i'm trying to pull teeth talking to you, etc." and she was like no no I'm not. I felt it was cold, got up and left and talked to other girls I knew to try and create jealousy plotline, didn't work and we left and went back, didn't see her since I got up and left.

Where did I go wrong with this girl? Should I keep pursueing her? I felt we hada great connection before it went cold. Also, should I try and get the girl I like to come out this weekend or wait until next? I want her to come out, but also don't want to seem needy/forcing her to go out.