i like this chick i think she likes me, her facebook says shes single, but someone said they think she has a b/f. i dunno tho, but last nite she had a party and there was a lot of us there, me nad her were flirtin, but then toward the end of the nite the party got nuts, but she ended up talkin to this guy who i think might be this so called b/f, and then after that i think she was cryin b/c she was upset, then she went somewhere. and everyone left.

would it be weird if i asked her out to lunch today or something? i want to, and i havent had like one on one time w/ this girl, it seems like everything just happens to fast when me and here are around each other and we dont get to talk that much

If you want to ask her out to lunch do so. You said that the two of you were flirting and vibing right? It should be ok for you to ask her out.

Now as far as asking her out to lunch. Reframe it as you were gonna go grab lunch and she should come along. Shes gotta sense that in now way is it a date or anything that may have expectations behind it. Wether she goes or not your gonna go out and grab lunch regardless, its just gonna be good company if she or anybody joins.

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true, the b/f situation is confusing me, b/c i dont want to be one of those guys that like gets fucked over b/c this girl cant make up her mind about what she wants

then out-game the other man. he sounds like a chump so screw him

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This may sound to vague now but if youre in the game for some time it may make more sense. ..

The "bf situation" shouldnt be a situation in your head if you've taken away all "pediastal value" in your situation or this girl. I believe this kind of mindset will develop later in your game.

A guy will feel more affected by a girl if he places value in a girl and her drama. Because you like her, her drama is dictating and having you react to her in an almost outcome dependancy like mindset. You have a higher chance of getting this girl by not letting her drama or even her affect who you are. non reactive.
Don't look at it as her "fucking you over with her indecisiveness." You are giving her way too much power and credit if she can make you feel like shit. This is only the first few stages of the game for her, no girl should have any control over how you feel about her (in a negative sense).

Sure sounds like psycho babble new age hippie shit but honestly play the game for you not for the girl.

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