Number closed on a HB8 over the weekend. I'm getting over my AA very well and getting numbers and attention has become easy and well alot of damn fun.

We've text back and forth alot the night i got her number. She was very into the conversation and flirted back alot.. Telling me I was hot and that she cannot believe she had not met me before cuz she would have given me here number on the spot blah blah blah..

She said that night she wanted to hang out on monday this week (this was just the weekend saturday) but I could not due to working fulltime and taking night classes. She said not a problem but wants to hang out when i have time we said our goodnights and stop texting for the night...

I didn't text her till yesterday again.. convo started good talk about misc crap for a few min but when i threw some IOI's again she seem to stray away and replys got short; one worders so i stopped texting her the rest of the day.


She texts me yesterday asking when were hanging out? I mention my friends bday party this weekend and that she can come and to bring a friend if she wishes (trying to hook my wing up). She agrees and says she can bring a one and thats she's cute.

I try flirting and IOI's again and convo goes dry once again she like seems totally un-interested in it now. so once again I stopped texting for the day but she sends me a goodnight text as I'm getting out of class last night..


We're suppose to hang out saturday but I'm not sure I want to hang out with this chick if she has a boring personality and can't handle a lil flirting/fun

Whats your guys take on it?

First of all good work, sounds like she's really into you.

With texting I always try and make sure that I am the one who ends the conversation. I always say something like "I gotta run. Cya X day." And then usually she'll text back once more, with something like "Okay. Sounds good."

You never want to come off as desperate. It should appear to her that you have more pressing concerns than texting her all day. Theres no need to text someone all day. It gets annoying.

Hope this helps,
B-Man