So im taking this girl out for the first time, and I don't want to do some standard lame dinner and movie shit, but its too cold to really do anything fun outside.. So I have decided to go some where we can play some "bar games" and do more than just talk. (any other ideas on where to go?) I was just thinking a place where we can play some pool or fooseball.

I plan on having some type of "bet" with her where if I win she has to do x and if I lose I have to do y. However I have already kiss closed, so I was wanting to do something other than "win" a kiss from her... Any ideas? Or any way to spice this up and not make it standard? I also have a feeling her idea for me (if I lose) will be kinda lame/standard, so can anyone suggest something that I can say I will do? Any advice on the situation would be much appreciated

to be completely honest, it sounds really lame. there isn't much you can say other than a kiss. unless she was going to fuck you already, winning a game of foosball is not going to get her to do anything else. NOW, with that said, if she DOES plan on fucking you, which most girls have already pre-determined, why bother with the games? chances are unless she's a virgin or super conservative, it's going to happen anyway. fuck that betting bs, i mean, do it light-heartedly, but don't expect it to advance your situation with her.

But, on the other hand, if you feel ballsy enough, and if she is a cool enough girl (by that i mean if she isn't stuck up, and likes to have fun) make a pretend bet. Bet her that she if you win she has to go home with you. do this in a fun way, and if she even ACCEPTS, you have nothing to worry about.

if you decide to do this, intentionally lose. then say something like "aw, i was looking forward to my prize" in a joking way, but with every joke theres a truth, and everyone knows that.

Only do option B if you feel that you know her well enough. i sleep with girls usually between date 1 and date 3, and if you're on date 2 or three, and your rapport is pretty built up, you should be fine.

Remember though, everything is not so serious, keep it all fun and light.