A survey I recently heard of, guys went around asking hundreds of women- “ How many times where you first met a guy - you wanted to have
sex with him but it was after the first phone call or text message where you completely changed your mind.” About
97% of all women agreed and said this happens to them A LOT.
Which brings me to today’s subject: Texting. I cannot stress enough how important text game is.
Let me tell you why text game is so important.
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1. When someone picks up a call, they put them selves in a vulnerable state. There’s so many things that can go wrong- a weirdo for example. If your anything like me, the women I go for have had plenty of weirdos who have tried calling them in the past . ( Unless the initial interaction went so well, I normally stay away from phone calls till later.)
Let’s face it, if phone calls were a regular thing- the phrase ” screening my calls ” wouldn’t have been invented.
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2. This isn’t 1959 anymore! Women work! They’re into this whole ” I have to support myself and can’t live off of men” idea
In the past I ALWAYS expect to leave a voicemail when first calling someone, but with technological advances I can simply text, and when she has the time she’ll return my text. Convenient and simple, just the way I like it
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3. Women are always up-to-date with the new thing. Unfortunately everything in our life evolves around technology. Emailing, Texting, Aim, Msn . . . what happened to the good ol’ days of phone calls, letters and smoke signals.
Most women I talk to prefer texting over phone calls, this doesn’t however deter the idea of phone calling. I do believe phone calls are still going on . . . but should only be done when checking logistical confirmations and a time for you and your other to get intimate. ( later down the line after you both are more comfortable with each other)
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Now that I’ve told you why
texting is the new Marcarene, I am going to do a short break down of my infamous text game. This is something I only show to my students, but it’s the holidays so I’ll throw this in as a gift to you guys
Ironically, my text game is exactly how I do game in person. My text game consists of Four Phases.
Fun–>personal–>
fun–>close.
Quote:
(Fun)I always make it fun in the beginning just to lighten up the mood- (In my opinion, no interaction should ever start off serious unless you plan on backing it up with good reasons.)
(personal) from there I make it personal so I can properly SOI her
(fun) The mood needs to be lightened back up, so I make it fun again.
(close) Eventually once she’s in the moment with me I’ll say something along the lines of:
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Me: You know (insert name), your Alright. I can definitely see us hanging out again
Her: YEAH I can see that too! ( if everything goes right, there’s no doubt you will get a response like this one )
Me: Ok when are you free. ( From here it’s a matter of setting up logistics and closing the deal.)
After long experience and with the help of my apprentice Tie Guy Seagars, I find this the best way to game not only through text but in person.
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Because there’s so much to cover with text game, I will give you guys a couple of guidelines when texting. And if you have any questions, please feel free to comment and I will be more than happy to answer them.
The interaction with the girl will determine how long you can wait to text her. But for the most part- I normally text right after meeting her with something along the lines of . . .
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Step1. (intro) Hey (insert name), it was nice meeting ya.
Step2. (the why) I had a fun time (insert something memorable you did together)
example: I had a fun time making fun of the Affliction shirt wearing guys with ya, even if I secretly watch UFC.
Step3. (the invite) We should definitely do it again sometime.
Step4. (the close) Have a safe ride home and we’ll talk again soon
Just to clarify, your first text message should read something along the lines of:
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Hey Jackie it was nice meeting ya. I had a fun time making fun of the Affliction shirt wearing guys with ya, even if I secretly watch UFC. We should definitely do it again sometime. Have a safe ride home and we’ll talk again soon
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If you do this correctly, she WILL respond to you. 95% of all women I meet respond after this text. Now what to say after she responds. Well, here’s the trick. She could be up for another round of having fun, which is why I ask a logistical question such as:
” Hey what are you upto right now? The night isn’t over for me and my friends. “
If she isn’t up for anything else then this is when you live to fight another day and end it. If she is up for some fun, fix logistics. Meet her up and go have fun!
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There’s much more to cover when it comes to text game, but I am going to end this for now. Try out everything I wrote here and I guarantee you’ll get results.
Until then feel free to ask questions