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| mintbase | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:30 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:17 pm Posts: 77 | | Hi everyone,
I have two day 2s coming up, one on Wednesday and one a week on Wednesday.
I like both girls after meeting them for about 30mins each but suppose I still like them both enough to continue seeing them after the day 2s?
My question is this:
How do I approach the subject of us having an 'open' relationship?
I wouldn't want them to meet each other, however.
Should I wait until after sex so that she/they is/are psychosexually invested? (Seems deceitful to me)
Or should I bring it up towards the end of the day 2s?
This question comes up a lot within our lair so any ideas would be a great help.
Thanks,
Mint
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| Lestat | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:03 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 3:04 pm Posts: 164 Location: Scarborough, England or Huddersfield, England | | Personally I wouldn't bring it up. Talk about things that happened when you were hanging out with a woman the same as you would if something interesting happened with a man. If she brings it up then be honest, but otherwise I'd let it be reasonably obvious without bringing it up myself. _________________ "Plan only what you must and live for the present - for tomorrow everything could change." - Personal Motto.
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| intron | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:49 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:08 am Posts: 38 | | Yeah I wouldn't bring it up either, at least on the Day 2. However, keep in mind there's dating and there's exclusively dating. I've known girls and guys who've dated multiple people before, usually settling on the one they like best and exclusively dating them. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one girl as long as you haven't made the commitment of a serious relationship.
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| AceofSpades07 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 8:22 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:51 am Posts: 315 Location: Chicago, Il | | yea i find myself having the same problem. Id say always be honest is key but wouldnt directly say anything unless she does. Im field testing things out too and will let you know if anything works for me.
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| AceofSpades07 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 8:39 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:51 am Posts: 315 Location: Chicago, Il | | yea i find myself having the same problem. Id say always be honest is key but wouldnt directly say anything unless she does. Im field testing things out too and will let you know if anything works for me.
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| Slappy | PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 8:35 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:34 pm Posts: 5 | | dont say ANYTHING...seperate the two as much as possible...
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