Did i play this out ok? whats you opion on it haha

This was a bulletin I posted on the space.. this is a chick I have never met just been talking to the past few days..



My bulletin....

If everything turns out to be a drag tonight i'll just make my own party lol i got a hotel room blaaah prob a total waste of money but fuck it is pretty much how i feel about that right now haha


HB7:
Well what am I gonna do if everything is a drag?? lol You were supposed to go do something super fun that way I could call you and tag along if it sux where I go!! If you're swimming around in a hotel then I have no fun backup plan hehe....


Me:lol I'll be out till 3 or 4 prob before i even go to the hotel...

I'm the walking party if somethings a drag I'll make it a party son. I'm only gunna be swimming around in the hotel if your there with me hot stuff



HB7:
Haha you're slick honey lol anyway I will maybe get in touch with you later : ) ttyl


Me:
slick? you got me all wrong babe... I'm not trying to "hook uo" with you if thats what your thinking... I'm in the middle of a 30 day no sex gig anyways.. I'm not messing it up just cuz its new years. I have to stay away from temptation so maybe hanging out with you would be a bad idea..

btw enjoy yourself tonight!!!



HB7:
Hey don't get the wrong idea...i didn't mean I'd come hang with you and "hook up" I don't even know you yet! Just meant you seem fun and nice and we could maybe hang sometime but its all good. Have a good night : )

Me:I don't have the wrong idea dork... You seem pretty fun as well It would be nice to hang out as strictly friends...

Get at me tonight doll if ya wanna meet up somewhere for drink..


HB7:
ok just makin sure...ttyl



Did i mess it up?

you shouldn't have messaged her back after the first ttyl

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by doing so it made me look desperate?

Maybe it's just because it's 6am the morning after a new years party but that really didn't make much sense.

by swimming around were talking about a jacuzzi... its a jacuzzi room she knows taht cuz she suggested what hotel to get the room at earlier.

And here I was picturing you connecting a hose to the fire hydrant and filling a hotel room with water.

mate, you blew yourself out of the water before the interaction even began.

"I'm gonna go have my own party but it's going to be shit and a waste of money and I feel shit."

It's pretty obvious, why would she want to go do that? I mean, your conveying a sense of insecurity and just contradicting yourself in that statement.

no need for the sarcasm...

I'm here posting this to figure where and what I did wrong so i can learn from it. I appreciate your response..

That actually wasn't sarcasm, I was picturing you turning a hotel room into a pool. Which would be freakin sweet.

Now I am only offering my assistance. In my opinion you chased it too far. It's difficult to assist if the circumstances and situation are unclear. Learn from your mistake and adjust accordingly.

yes you fail the shit test, let me explain how:

HB7:
Well what am I gonna do if everything is a drag?? lol You were supposed to go do something super fun that way I could call you and tag along if it sux where I go!! If you're swimming around in a hotel then I have no fun backup plan hehe.... (translation: If it sucks where I go, I want my plan B to be better, now do something else)


Me:lol I'll be out till 3 or 4 prob before i even go to the hotel...(translation: I will probably be doing something better before I get to the hotel)

wether you noticed it or not you just agreed to be her plan B, the person to bail her out of the shit she might fall in. In other words a GIRLfriend which is a AFC move.

But IMO i think you bailed yourself out with the second part of the convo(again im no expert so I could be wrong) just see how things turn out.

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lol, mithos goes straight to the point

the conversation wasn't a total waste. it showed that you can be cocky & funny. i think you communicated too much interest though

Firest off thanks for the replys... I like when people just get straight to the point and put it out there. Mithos is blunt and thats what I need so I can get my shit right.

This played out pretty good.. She text me about a few hours after this saying whe wanted me to come meet up with her and her friends.. i told he i had other stuff to do and that i'd get at her later in the night..

I waited till almost 11 ish to text her back after that and she begged me to come met her at the bar they were all at..

Walked in said hi and excused myself to do a quick round at the bar said hi to some people i knew and a few chicks i didn't made my way back over about 20 mintues later.. i noticed the whole time she watched me and what I was doing..

she ended up about ripping my close off at midnight went back to the hotel with her friends a few of mine and me...

she gave me a bj in the bathroom/cuzzi (it was in the bathroom) I shut her down on the anything more and said I cannot cuz of my 30 day no sex gig which is a total lie..

She text me lastnight and asked if i wanted to come over for the night i turned her down an said i was free tonight.. She has already text me asking when I'm getting off owrk and asked if i wanted to come over..




I think mithos got it right about the second part of the convo saving me... I intentional kinda ignored her when i first got to the bar to try and make up for showing to much interest earlier on and i think it helped..

nicely done, I like the way you played it.

here your qualifying yourself to her, and planning your evening around her

She said nothing abuot sex or hooking up


dork???
she said ttyl and bye 3 times.. yet you continued talking, its starting to sound a bit like an argument blaming each other for getting the wrong idea, also the mystery is gone as you are telling her your intentions which are obviously not true.. lying = dlv

and when a girl says "maybe" (in bold) and "sometime" its never that promising