Hello guys I need to get this story analyzed to see what I did wrong,
I kissed closed a girl a few weeks ago and went to my place but didnt fclose but still got naked. The evening after txt me so I thought it's all good and playing it slow with some cocky funny txt messages.
The next time I saw her in the club she was all like; "Ah you are playing hard to get! My girlfriends say you are gaming me" etc. I thought she was joking abit so I negged her, but she was serious. After awhile I was getting tired of her nagging so I went on home that night. She texted me that night, but I kept it short because I dont like drama queens. The following week we texted some more, c/k funny etc.
Anyways now to point where my friend comes in, I arrive at the party and after chatting to other girls to getting my social proof up I notice that she is ignoring me. So when her friends and and she is about the leave. I start talking "hey whats the problem etc, I notice that she serious so I drop my cocky/funny attitude She says: You and I want two different things ( I think yes she likes me lol) Turns out my friend said to her : You are his new project! So the only way I thought I could save it, was going puppy dog eyes and saying she's a nice girl WRONG?. AND it worked so I tagged along with her and her 2 girlfriends, getting them to like me and that worked like a charm, passed their shittests etc. They all live in same apartment and the two girlfriends asked me to get back to their apartment. I kissclosed the project and slept at her and her girlfriends place(no-fclose because she didnt want it). But I could notice that she didnt like that she was a project and she kept naming it in convo every 5 min, so I kept making some jokes about it and she laughed about them. Had a great night a nice morning with some teasing etc. Anyways all was good but
HERE I WENT WRONG again
seeing as the previouse cockyfunny txt messages caused abit of stir and in the night she asked with how many girls I've been with and that sometimes I abit cocky (but still very funny). I thought I'd play the nice guy. So after waiting the minimum time I texted:Hey project ...
Had a nice night yesterday, we need to repeat it on mondaynight!? x
then she texted: I can't, the reason is I like you but not like this.
I thought wtf, because it's been 3 years since I got the you are a nice guy speech and I thought I had this one.
Anyways some texting back and forth not really making it clearer.
So I saw her tonight again, and she basicly avoided me whole evening like last time and didnt really wanna talk to me. And I was too drunk to be bothered by it so I didnt really care.
I dont have oneitis or anything, I got also 4 girls k-close since I kissed closed her. But she was the only one with a natural progression to a day 2 and I'm need of a fuck buddy.
Option 1: She thinks that she is the project and she doesnt want to continue
Option 2: She thinks I'm in love with her because I've been a wuss with the texting. But then again in real life I'm a totally cocky/funny and they cant seem to crack me with their words.
I'm going to see her after holidays again. I'm thinking about going to be cavemanning very direct and asking what the problem is. Since it worked last time.
blegh all this trouble due to a drunk friend lol!
So any thoughts on this?
CHAT