hey guys

so i went on a sarge and kiss closed a HB8. multiple times, i was with her for a couple hours that night.

my friend wing also kiss closed her best friend, which was nicely done too

after that, the HB8 and i started talking over the phone and it was going extremely well (so i think) and we ended on a date, cos she was so keen on watchin a movie with me (i much rathered to go her place for movies, but she insisted)
it was pretty cool then, she wanted to hold my hand lol, and we kissed alot that night aswell until i got home. after that we spoke via txt message, but it was going quite until now, i havnt heard from her for a couple days. last txt message went like this from he to r after i invited her out for the next day:

HB: tomorrow i have plans n next week i might be free on tuesday night but il be swamped with xmas parties and conferences for the next 2 weeks! which im not lookin forward too but il get back to you. sorry my phone is on silent, trying to finish reports for work, im in the zone hehe

so i texted her back a few hours later after i got home from another sarge.
im thinkin this was a mistake
nathan:
Your working so hard girl, you need to relax and kick back. i tell you wat, you can be my massage dummie, while we chill wit some movies im makin you watch so lucky you youll get this when you wake, so good mornin cutie

since then i havnt heard back, and i thought id give her one last chance and give her a call tonight which went un aswered

so whats goin on? i know my wing F-closed her friend. could that be a problem?

Why does it matter?
If you are still going out sarging after going on a date with her you cant be that attached. She had her chance to get lucky with you and blew it so you might as well just move on.

Don't get to stuck on the one girl. You did say you still go out sarging so you can always find another girl. She said she would get back to you, so just keep going out until then. If she gets back to you, great; go hang out and have fun. If she doesn't, at least you didn't waste your time and you kept going out. Don't let yourself have any negative options or results.

thanks guys

my weakest part of my game is the phone game. i think cos its souring, its making me frustrated to pick up my skills in that area!

Im the same as you, phone game is my weakest asset, so i just realized that if your not good at phone game place a dense time contraint. E.g say you can only talk for a minute and actually only talk to her for a minute. That way the conversation ends while its still interesting as apposed to ending when the conversation is boring. That way she'l think the conversation was fun all the way through when really its because you only had 1 minutes dialogue in there, what do you guys think?

I am almost positive, that if you don't message her ever again she will not text you but call you if she remains interested.

She just had a night fling with a guy that was different; she is busy she is dedicated, as the things she is accomplishing comes to a close she is going to think about how lame everything she is doing is on a routine. Until she finds out what it is like to chill with you and you find your *closure* to her.

I think her saying she was Free Tuesday was a possible opening to just come over.

I am just speaking off my gut and theory.

I have a friend of mine Fadi, he does this and he isn't a pick up artist in the sense of this community. He is a natural, he literally doesn't care he talks to a chick, calls her or text her; if no response... he drops it and talks to other women. They usually call him a week to a month later a lot of times. asking what happened?

I think that if you do decide to try and contact her again on the phone don't call. You need to Text and do it in the manner of an event. Keep it short and simple. Ex. Going to a Party *time* *location*; you are probably enjoying your studies but (We should catch up) or (catch you there if you are free)

That might work; thats what I would try if I contacted her,

The best possible situation is Running into her randomly again and then you can kind of play a Fate "it was meant to be routine on them"

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i ended up texting her once more after that in which i got a response but it was unusually blunt. so im droppin it!
im possitive i didnt do anything that was so bad she had to shy off, so im thinkin maybe somethin in her life could of happened or even i could of bored her a lil bit? or found out my real age of 20! haha, when she thought i was 24

cheers guys, another days right around the corner