| This girl actually asked me if she could come over to my place the other night - and previously she had hinted that she was gonna 'show me something' (FUCK ME). So, she took the 1hour+ journey at 11pm the other night to come meet and come to my place.... (this is my second time meeting her in person since the club, about a month ago - but we spoke quite a bit on the phone and online)
So, this happens that happens, night progresses, my tongue has played with her pussy, she's moaning like a motherfucker - we're about to get at it, and she says "no, actually i don't htink we should" - JUST as i'm about to start sexing her., (yes, i said sexing)
I know i know, freeze out, 100% perfect girl story, bla bla... I'll get that lmr stuff locked by the end of tonight... But in the mean time, I've got another question.
We were getting on fine in the morning and stuff, play fighting, making jokes, all that business... She was speaking about quite a few of her other guys, don';t know what she was trying to get at. Then she left home.
Now, why did she lmr me? BEcause i hadn't validated her enough? Had she decided by the end of that night that she didn't find me attractive?
I would say it was coz she didn't feel special to me, but her talking about other guys, leaving so casually, it sort of makes me think she doesn't want to meet again??
So what i'm asking is, how should i follow this up?
SHE REALLY has the upper hand in this - it's like she's got full control.
Is it best to start validating her, and let her know i'm still interested even though she didn't fuck me, and put her even higher up than she already is... Or should i add in that she'd make an amazing friend - let that prey on her mind, and get her chasing me again. (my control baby)
What do you guys think?
siimba
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