OK, so there's a HB8 I've seen three different places three different times now. Met her at a concert, she bummed a smoke from me, I kissed her on the cheek, and she gave me her card (she's a realtor). I emailed her, but never called her.

I saw her a second time at a bar...she was all over another guy, but had to come talk to me and dance with me once. I still had her card, and almost decided to call her after that, but never got around to it.

I saw her a third time at a bar with one of her girl-friends. I grabbed her and danced with her. We were just about to tongue-dance when her female friend cock-blocked me and dragged her out of the bar. (In my mind, that's as good as a kiss-close...the intention was certainly there, we just got interrupted. I should have handled the female cock-blocker better by engaging her!) She gave me another card though because I told her I had misplaced the first one. She remembered my first name, and asked me my last name, which she recited to remember it.

So, I've called her a couple times and left a message. No call-back. There's obviously plenty of attraction from her, so I'm wondering why no call-back. I'm wondering (since she's a realtor) if perhaps she's looked up my real estate records, found that I'm married (although I could be seperated), and doesn't want to engage in those complications.

Advice guys? I think I'll try to call her again today.

Gruuve

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Im new to the community man, but in general I would call it a day at that. Wait and see if she calls you back.

When did you call?

If you have given her a few calls and left a message - its on a cell/mobile phone then I guess she will have missed calls and a voicemail and know you tried to get in contact with her.

Persistent calling in a short space of time without her even answering could look really desperate.

Id say wait it out, but maybe others have opinions.

Also, not every chick who is flirtatious on a night out will want to see you the next day, so play it cool if she thinks your worth the time and got your call, then she'll be in touch if not - maybe you'll meet randomly again, and if not - theres plenty others.

Oh, just noticed this old thread here. I stumbled across the woman in question on Facebook. She's listed as married! That probably explains the reason for no returned call. I don't do married women as a rule anyway...I've been on the receiving side of that in a sense, and it's not a good place to be...I wouldn't want to put anyone else in that spot. (Plus getting laid ain't worth getting shot in the head by an hubby who's snapped! )

Gruuve

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Divorced dude having a good life.