I got i real cute girl interested and only have one major problem. She got out of a long relationship and its been about 3 weeks now that shes been out of it and she is having second thoughts about moving forward with me. Where do i stand in this situation and how should i approach her and the situation?

Thanks.

In this situation your stand is "I'm gonna make this girl mine" and you will go about doing this by using the push pull technique.

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

Today is literally my first day, as I plan to develop my skill in becoming a pick up artist.

I will have to agree push and pull. You need to place good negs and pull her back closer each time with a charming compliment or relation. Keep it Fun, your objective here is to keep her focused on you, so she isn't talking about him. Showing a sense of "confidence" that allows her to desire your sense of security; to replace the security she may have lost in her last relationship.

I always thought just listen and they'll open up. That usually ends up with "He is just a really good friend."

I hope that helps instead of does more harm.

-Axe-

Do you have more information about how long you have been hanging or whats been going on in general?

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I wish I knew women like I know Poker.

Yea its been about 2 weeks that we've been hanging out, doing dinner once along with a movie. Took her for a ride on the motorcycle, just keeping it simple for right now. I just went on a cruise over the weekend and i told her before i left that this would be a good oppertunity to see where her feelings stood cuz i would be out of contact with her. So i get back and listen to my messeges and she left one for me saying, Oh i miss you so much, your such a good guy im loking forward to hanging out with you when you get back. blah blah blah. Well she left that messege before she went and talked to her ex about "things". So i talked to her yesterday and she's seemed even more worried.

SAW