how do i number close a girl i've just met, or have met a couple of times?
any help would be amzingly appreciated/.

Basically just find a point when you are about to leave or they have just said soemthing interesting then say something along the lines oF "I am impressed, it is a very rare thing that I meet anyone interesting enough to hold my attention, congratulations how about I get your number so we can meet up and caht another time". I have used variations on this for a while and it works everytime.

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"hey, what is your number" (while putting your phone open on a new contact in to her hand)
yes, it can be as simple as that

add "lets catch up later" to it if you wish

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or walk away and turn around and say u didnt catch their number


or replace number with activity that ur impressedthat shes interested in

or better yet, if u know this girl will be around (campus or w/e) and uhave plenty of other girls u are working on simultniously just leave her wanting ur number

then she'll get it

research: "time bridging"

Yup....I completely didn't realize it was that simple - but it totally is! Of course, unless you have a reason to txt her (call back humor, pre-arranged meet, etc) you still have a long way to go after that!

or a better one is maybe (check the time on your phone whilst giving a non-verbal TC, then just as it's there like "Hey cool, I'll take your number" (while giving her the phone). Simple as that. By saying "I'll take your number", it isn't like she has a choice, and your just telling her what your about to do and then doing it!

I don't believe in asking for a girls number unless you feel like the conversation has been mutually pleasurable. Put it this way:

If you're asking because it's been a natural and pleasant conversation, then you should.

If you're asking purely for the sake of number closing, do it if you want, but you probably won't get one.

If you're asking just because she's a hottie, then you probably won't get one.

With that in mind, if you're going to go for it, my favorite type of close is like this:
I casually get my phone out, unlock it, and just hand it to her. She knows what to do. (if you think she needs a prompt just say 'put your number in there'. Don't ask her, tell her.)
If I'm not within reach of her, I throw my phone at her and tell her to put her number in. You could call it cave-manning i suppose.

This all works better if you've 'time-bridged' i.e. established a mutual interest (eg iceskating) and said that she should totally take you sometime (note: I said SHE should take YOU, thus planting the suggestion that it's her who wants YOU, and not the other way around).

Remember! you're doing the bitch a favour by giving her the opportunity to see you again.

i like to say something like: "I like what we have going on here, how can we continue this?"
if you played her well enough she would be more than pleased to give you her number...