I'll apologize now for those of you who don't like to read long posts. I'm sorry, but if you're like me then you like extreme detail into everything. There are some things I think people don't go into enough detail about and others it's very well covered. So hopefully, y'all can learn from this as we all continue to learn together.
I put it in this section because it really deals with number closing and day 2 texting game (now SHE'S friending ME on facebook)...
This post covers my whole game on one girl (which led to others) up until now... I think it reveals a lot about my personality and how I go about the game.
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My friend and I were looking for somewhere to eat. Luckily we waited awhile and got a phone call from some of his girl friends asking if he wanted to go out to eat; he asked if I could tag along and it was downhill from there....
I wasn't expecting to game that night... but we should always be ready
My game and personality go hand in hand - CF. I try to turn everything into a joke which is a plus when it comes to the game. I ended up AMOGing my friend by making a few jokes at his expense, he was cool with it though...
I can't go into detail about the jokes I use because like I said it's all situational. My type of humor is to turn something someone says into a joke by using the unexpected... For example, at a party I was recently at one of my friends introduced me to a girl and asked "Have y'all two met yet?" I said, "Oh yeah of course! We've been best friends since 6th grade!" Even though we've never seen each other. That's a good line for those of you who like canned material....
Well that night ended with the girls pretty quickly because me and my friend were headed to a party and the girls were going elsewhere. I didn't think much about it. The next day the girls ask a lot of questions about me to my friend (my friend tells me this)... He said they found me funny and he should bring me around them more often. See guys, it pays to be CF...
A side note about CF gaming: from my experience it's not wise to mix CF routines with others. For example, the cube routine just doesn't fit or flow well within a CF routine. It's hard (for me at least) to move from a humorous mood to a serious tone that the cube creates. Even when I isolate them I use the time to make them keep laughing and feel more comfortable with me. The 5 questions game could be good though if you keep it in a humorous mood, which I think it is...
The next night my friend says those girls were going to some frat parties on campus and asked if I wanted to go. So I go and the whole night I'm still working on making the whole group laugh... I try to get my friend to help me isolate this one girl I'm trying to talk to. Long story short he doesn't get the message so I never get to talk to her one on one... I got it down to 2 girls and I didn't want to leave one girl by herself, because I don't like making people feel awkward. So before you criticize me because I didn't use the line "Hey let me borrow your friend for a little bit" -- it's just not me. Not my personality.
My friend apologizes the next day for being a cock block and being a bad wingman. I can't exactly blame him because he was talking to some girls too. We didn't want to take the fall for each other, HA! He tells me the girl I was trying to talk to was really interested in me and enjoyed my humor and personality. She told him that if I asked him to get her number then give it to me. Immediately, I told him NOT to give me the number NOR tell her that I asked about her. The AFC thing to do would be to go through a friend to get the number or try to contact her during the following week. I had to seem uninterested or else she had the upper hand...
So a week goes by and her and her roomates are throwing a halloween party. He told me they invited me and was welcome to go. I told him that I didn't know if I'd be able to go (knowing full well I could go) because I was going other places. But of course I ended up going...
Halloween allows the unique ability to peacock... best pick up holiday I think
Anyway, a lot of people are there (especially girls) and I try to establish myself as an AMOG by making a lot of jokes with the girls and befriending all the guys. When I saw a group of guys together (around the food of course) I would go and hang out with them for a bit trying to make them laugh and get to know this. I think we have to game the guys too (NO HOMO) in order for the party to like you. After this it was easy to talk to all the girls at the party.
Now someone suggested to me that I shouldn't game other girls at the party if I was trying to work on another girl. At least don't be seen. This wasn't the case at all. I found myself in a 4 set who arrived at the party. They walked in and I said "Whoa whoa whoa! I don't know any of you, I need to learn each of your names." They all laughed and went down the line giving me their names. We all talked and chatted awhile; making each other laugh and soon other girls join us because they see how much fun we're having. Well the girl I was interested in (the hostess of the party) saw all of this - and to me she seemed jealous - and came over to the group and stood right next to me trying to get some of the attention. At this point it was easy to neg her and I could see the frustration building on her face. So I excused myself (get out while you're on top) and said I had to go get something to drink (I've been drinking water all night).
I stay downstairs for awhile and the hostess eventually comes and hangs out with me some more. We talk for awhile. I made a joke saying I don't even know how I'm going to get back home because the people I came with left me (which the really did - I told them I wanted to stay and they were party hopping). She said she hadn't been drinking and could take me home. I made the joke that she was "my DD."
This is how I got her number - for those of us who like detail: (a lot of people in these forums say they number closed but don't say how - I like to know routines). This routine was situational but I'm sure something can be pulled from it. I grabbed my phone while we were talking, set up a new contact called "my DD". I told her since she was now my DD I would need her number in case I got lost in the party. She laughed and I gave her my phone and put her number in. She laughed even harder when she saw she was stored as "my DD." I guess it's good to make her laugh or make her comfortable about giving me her number (well she already offered it through my friend - so I had plenty of IOIs to get it). She made the joke that I would forget who she was if it was left like that...
The party dies down and me and my friend bounce...
The next day I send a text:
ME: Wait. 'my DD'... who is this?
HER: Haha o yea, i told you you'd forget
ME: Haha, naaa i'd never forget you. i know it's you karen (*i made up that name to make her laugh, it wasn't her name)
HER: Haha o good, you remembered my name haha, you're sexy right?
that was a joke from the night before. she asked if I preferred to be called ***** or ****. I said "It doesn't matter. I've been called *****, ****, **, sexy, *****"... you get the idea...
ME: No, you're bodyguard beat me up last night for rights to that name. (some AFC was trailing her, he wouldn't leave me alone)
HER: Haha my bodyguard. Man i didn't know i had one, that's pretty awesome. Well looks like you won the title, congrats
I let time go by for a few hours before I text again. I actually went to another party some friends asked me to go to haha... I PROMISE I don't go to parties regularly...
ME: I was just trying to get you to look at your phone, looks like I win
HER: Haha, are you sure. I bet you were just tryin to get me to think of you haha
ME: I don't have to try, I know you can't get me off your mind
HER: Haha o is that what you think...
ME: I could come up with a lot of lines to combat that, but that would be lame. point being: I don't think, I know...
HER: Haha o i see... BTW you left your flava flav bling here (-- that's who I was for halloween... I had a wall clock attached to a gold chain, pretty cheap looking)
ME: I better not come by and see that clock hanging on your wall, that was some expensive blingage pieces...
HER: Haha please... I'm gonna wear it... clocks are for around your neck... not the wall...
ME: You're gonna try to pretend you're me... awww that's cute...
HER: Okay, i'll work on my rap skills too... that way i'll pretend better (-- i rapped at the party to be funny, she said she was impressed)
ME: That was just a preview. Not many people can take all of *my name* at once...
HER: Well it was a pretty good preview not gonna lie
ME: I'm gonna keep you stored as 'my DD' in my phone... you should store me as 'that charming guy that makes me smile' in yours...
HER: haha haha
ME: See, you're smiling now aren't ya?
HER: Lol you're right. I guess that means i should save you as that
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That's pretty much the end of the story until now. She just added me on facebook. I'm gonna send her a message saying: I didn't take you as the stalker type.
She took a picture of us two together. If she puts it on facebook I might post it in here with our faces blurred out or something...
Now 3 other girls from the party added me on facebook too... I don't know how they found me, all I gave out was my first name I think...
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I'm sorry that's such a long post and I might have still left out some details. If I did I'll post it. Let me know what y'all think...
--QB
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