So I met this girl a few weeks back. I don't want to disclose too much info about her but lets say she's of Russian, or similar, descent. She like solid, hard men who don't budge or flinch under pressure. I'm sure we are all familiar with the type. I'd categorize her in the low 8's.

I can count about 4 or 5 separate tests I encountered last night. And, if I'm not mistaken, I passed each with flying colors.

Now usually, in such a situation, I find the girls to be quite willing to do anything by the end of the night. And, when we were in a seduction surrounding, I went about my business accordingly.

To my surprise, I hit LMR. Hard LMR. I figured, just another test. I pushed, push pulled, hot cold, freeze out, and then I started masturbating right in front of her. Though the last got the greatest results, I still couldn't break through LMR. She told me that she wanted to see again and if I continued to do that she wouldn't be able to see me anymore because she was a conservative girl and what I was doing was disrespectful.

Wow, I thought. In these types of situations I'm so used to the girl be so willing if not the aggressor! Here, she matches the description of all those other girls to a T except this LMR seems like less of a final test and more of an actual standard she holds herself to. Good for her.

This morning, I came to realize that instead of playing a lot of games during seduction, I could have forwent that and merely held her, cuddled, etc. In my defense, I was exceedingly horny (been over 2 weeks since last sexual encounter) plus she was rubbing her hip into my groin. Nevertheless, had I been a bit more "calm" the comfort (and even attraction) that could have been built and applied to the next encounter could have been great.

The moral of the story... aggressiveness is usually good. But, as part of my continual calibration, I think I have to learn when to cool it off a bit.

Am I wrong? Input thoughts?

No input at all?

your right it seems to be a standard she holds but know that what you want is attainable. Its right there you just need to get it a little differently this time. I say keep pretty aggressive but not in a chasey kind of way but in a seductive way. Make her horny then pull off and make yourself look like you dont want it or make yourself look a little (not too much) less attainable. Good luck bro your the shit dont forget that!

Thanks Mup! Chief also suggested that I throw some tests her way as well in response.