So i met this a girl a this party, and the next week we went on a "date." after it was all over, i asked her if she wanted to kiss me at the end and she said she doesnt kiss on first dates. I FORGOT TO SAY "thats alright, i didnt say you could" gambit for some stupid reason and that was that. However tonight, i met up with her for a third time, (second her friend was with us), and we ate and i somehow got her back to my dorm. we gave each other massages for like 30 mins, i was joking around during all this time cause thats the kinda person i am. but got serious at times to. right when she was about to leave, she hopped on my bed to say goodbye, and i asked her is she wanted to kiss me. she said i dont know and i did the gambit i talked about earlier. 5 secs later she said ok, and chaching. however, i havent kissed a girl in like 7 years, (im 19) so i dont know how i did but she gave me a 2 sec one, leaned away and came back for another five sec one. because i have not done it in so long kept my eyes a bit open (wierd) but i dont think she saw cuz i couldnt see hers). what do you guys think? do i got a chance?

so you just K-closed and you're asking us whether or not you have a chance???

what happened after you kissed? did you set up a day 4? have you spoken to her since?

Ok, i hung out with her tonight again and we kissed and were having alot of chemistry together. so i was like "do you like me" and she said some stuff about theres this other guy she likes, bla bla bla, so i was just like whatever. i told her she wouldnt have more fun with anyone than she would with me (not sexually, i meant just fun). She offered the "we can be friends" shit. i didnt really respond. so i figure, whatever, i guess ill sarge a little more and get a better one. i guess im not at the point in my game where i can make girls leave guys for me. but ill get there.

quick problem I noticed right off the bat is that your asking if she wants to kiss, or if she likes you. Remeber women don't communicate using their mouths, it always in there body. Now your telling me you've gone out with this chick 3 times?... Thats three nights where she could have spent her time anywhere else, with her friend with that dude she likes, with whoever, but she didn't she chose to see you!

Thats means their something there and that she liked you. Although you demonstrated weakness and entered her world, when you began asking questions can i kiss you, do you like me... that shows your insecure, and possibly i've noticed is that people who joke alot, tend to be a little more insecure about themselves. Which btw its ok, because 90% on these forums are.

Next time dont ask just go for the kiss, if she backs off and says no, then its the same as her saying no to your question. IF she kisses back, then you demonstrate confidence in what you do, win win...

never ask if a girl likes you or if she wants to kiss you. kino escalate (tough her knee, shoulder, hand, etc). if you doesnt pull away you are basically in, look her in the eyes, lean in and boom. k-close.