so you've #-closed a girl with the intent of doing something (not a date, something more low key). but the girl flakes, what is the common solution to follow up and get the day 2?

my particular situation that prompted me to post this was I #-closed this hottie the night before the 4th. it was textbook, seeded the conversation by talking about the party I was having, talked about other stuff then said she seemed cool enough to come to the party so we exchanged numbers, kept talking and took her hand and led her upstairs to build more comfort and kino before leaving because it was almost closing time. so the next day after the party gets going i text her and say she should come to the party, she responds that she's at another one but will later. i never hear anything else.

the one bad thing - she's only 19, and i revealed that i'm 10 years older... oops, i though she was 21 or 22. i look younger though (her words) but girls that young are not usually down with that big of an age difference.

i think theres 3 ways to go here...
1. send her a text that says "you missed a great party, i'm going to _________, you should come"
2. get her facebook or myspace (lame, but good for keeping in touch with people you don't hang out with regularly)
3. send a totally random text.

personally i like #1 then falling back on #2 if she can't come with to whatever (i just got something in mind actually)

Personally, I like to bust their balls about flaking. Something i might say would be like:
"aww that's cute, your too nervous to come to the party."

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