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If this is in the wrong section sorry.

I have question on if being overly sexual with a girl (but not sealing the deal) when you first meet is more likely to lead to being flaked on for a day 2?

I met a girl Thursday and a friend's house party (she is his house mate). It was a small party and me and her started to hit it off. Managed to get her alone, get her number and get her in her bedroom where we only made out. Every time I tried to get further she would stop me and say she didn't want people to talk, people will see and eventually someone came and fell asleep on the bed we were on.

We agreed to meet up yesterday and we texted during the day (briefly to confirm we still would) and when we spoke on the phone she said she would let me know if her house mates were doing something and we were going with them or if we would be doing something just us two. I told her I'd rather spend time with just her.

She didn't get back to me or answer when I called her later so she flaked.

I'm wondering seeing as she was obviously into it at first is it possible that she 'regrets' what happened on Thursday and feels like I only want to see her for sex hence the flake?
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Being overly-anything will increase the likelyhood of flaking.

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Agreed.
Next time i will either focus on closing the deal or letting them make the first move if i can't.

The girl has messaged back saying she fell asleep after uni (supported by her flat mate who is my friend). But has been taking STUPIDLY long to message back since. So just giving up... Either she's not interested or playing games and both situations is a waste of time
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You have to show intentions and be sexual with a girl
you're interested.She just sounds like she wasnt interested in you.

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You have to show intentions and be sexual with a girl
you're interested.She just sounds like she wasnt interested in you.
When we met she was interested hence the flirting, making out etc.
When i text the next day she seemed interested but at the end of that i agree it sounds like she's not interested.

I agree with having to show intention just wondered if sometimes that can be bad if you don't seal the deal on the night because it leaves a situation where the girl tells herself you just want to continue where you left off and fuck her (that is the case :roll: ) so she has an 'anti-slut' reaction and flakes.
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Every time I tried to get further she would stop me and say she didn't want people to talk, people will see and eventually someone came and fell asleep on the bed we were on.
Also OP look up LMR, and ways around it.

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I've had times when we heavily made out, but then couldnt even go for second date!
Or she sent me naked pics FROM HER INITIATIVE and also didnt meet up!
It might be some slut shield popping up... And yes, i need to search some ways around LMR as well!
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The default position of most women seems to be to flake, its just who they are, ive found that there isnt any point in analysing why they do it, they just do, the important thing is to not waste time on them when they come out with, my sisters friend is getting her toe nails manicured and she needed support etc, they are time wasters--your time, your time that should be spent working on next, always be on the job of sarging.
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Every reaction has the potential an equal reaction if it is not brought to close. Punch through a piece of wood with force, break it, and you'll be fine. Punch through a piece of wood with force, don't break it, and a shock wave of equal force will be sent back to your hand and it won't be pretty.

Its similar here.. You pushed, pushed, pushed, and didn't completely your objective so the natural pull, pull, pull, is happening from her end.

I do think its a bit too early to be concerned though, give it time, but basically you only want her for sex and she's aware. If you close, you may never talk to her again, and thats a risk for her to take. Be patience, and make it worth it.

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Every reaction has the potential an equal reaction if it is not brought to close. Punch through a piece of wood with force, break it, and you'll be fine. Punch through a piece of wood with force, don't break it, and a shock wave of equal force will be sent back to your hand and it won't be pretty.

Its similar here.. You pushed, pushed, pushed, and didn't completely your objective so the natural pull, pull, pull, is happening from her end.

I do think its a bit too early to be concerned though, give it time, but basically you only want her for sex and she's aware. If you close, you may never talk to her again, and thats a risk for her to take. Be patience, and make it worth it.
Very good point. Probably makes it worse that her housemate is my friend so would be awkward if i close and ditch her

I am giving it time and not really chasing. If I see her again at my friend's place then i will try in person.
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If this is in the wrong section sorry.

I have question on if being overly sexual with a girl (but not sealing the deal) when you first meet is more likely to lead to being flaked on for a day 2?

I met a girl Thursday and a friend's house party (she is his house mate). It was a small party and me and her started to hit it off. Managed to get her alone, get her number and get her in her bedroom where we only made out. Every time I tried to get further she would stop me and say she didn't want people to talk, people will see and eventually someone came and fell asleep on the bed we were on.

We agreed to meet up yesterday and we texted during the day (briefly to confirm we still would) and when we spoke on the phone she said she would let me know if her house mates were doing something and we were going with them or if we would be doing something just us two. I told her I'd rather spend time with just her.

She didn't get back to me or http://www.comparateur-mutuelle-assurance-sante.com] answer when I called her later so she flaked.

I'm wondering seeing as she was obviously into it at first is it possible that she 'regrets' what happened on Thursday and feels like I only want to see her for sex hence the flake?
hello!! need some trick to make with two girls because i really don't know what to do!
thanks!!
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hello!! need some trick to make with two girls because i really don't know what to do!
thanks!!
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If this is in the wrong section sorry.

I have question on if being overly sexual with a girl (but not sealing the deal) when you first meet is more likely to lead to being flaked on for a day 2?

I met a girl Thursday and a friend's house party (she is his house mate). It was a small party and me and her started to hit it off. Managed to get her alone, get her number and get her in her bedroom where we only made out. Every time I tried to get further she would stop me and say she didn't want people to talk, people will see and eventually someone came and fell asleep on the bed we were on.

We agreed to meet up yesterday and we texted during the day (briefly to confirm we still would) and when we spoke on the phone she said she would let me know if her house mates were doing something and we were going with them or if we would be doing something just us two. I told her I'd rather spend time with just her.

She didn't get back to me or http://www.comparateur-mutuelle-assurance-sante.com] answer when I called her later so she flaked.

I'm wondering seeing as she was obviously into it at first is it possible that she 'regrets' what happened on Thursday and feels like I only want to see her for sex hence the flake?
hello!! need some trick to make with two girls because i really don't know what to do!
thanks!!
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