Hi gents,

Here's a story (I'll try to keep it short):
Last week I had sex with a girl from our inner circle of friends. I had known her for a short while, the rest of the group thinks we'd be a good match. It just sort of happened, as we both stayed for a sleepover at our friend's house.
There is absolutely no awkwardness, I sent her a text the day after to check if she's fine.

Yesterday the group met at her house for some boarding games (and drinking). I was there first and we had a normal chat before the rest arrived.
Now, I wanted to make a move of some sort, a bit of a kino... Throughout the whole night I didn't do a thing to keep her interested. The group doesn't know what happened a week ago, although they have their suspicions.

Is there a way to get back into the game with her? Or the fact that I didn't do anything last night put me in a friend zone? I don't know what her attitude is, we didn't have "the talk" so maybe that was the reason I was scared to act...

I'd appreciate your opinion on this. Cheers!

You're not "out of the game" with her because you didn't do anything that particular night. She's just as human as you are, and probably wonders what she herself did wrong to justify you're behavior.

Point is, stop hyperventilating and ask her out for drinks. She'll know whats up and you'll have your answer.

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Not sure I understand the whole story / problem.

But I would say it's best not to make assumptions. But I'm guessing having other people around and being the host of the party the second time had something to do with it. Perhaps she was worried about her reputation around her friends?

I would just get her out alone you and her and take it from there without any extraneous distractions.

I don't know the problem either... What do you want now?

If you like her, you should arrange a date... "I sensed I was missed. Friday night I'm free, let's meet at xyz".


If you don't, leave as it is now. If she points out something about that night, and let's assume she's normal person to talk to, explain to her in as much less details as you can that you don't want to continue with this anymore.


Only middle ground is if you only want to fuck her ONLY... Just be honest with her.

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