Hey guys, I'm relatively new to this forum, and it's time for me to contribute
Let's start with saying that the way you approach the game change your type of results, for example, you can see the game with two mindsets:
- If I spend enough time practicing at one point I'll get the life style I desire
This isn't a bad mindset, but sometime you have to choose from good and better not always good and bat, and you know what??? The guys with this mindset may can get good at one point (even if the statistics are against them), but they aren't ready for that. They just play and never get that life style.
There is still hope though, at one point they may get the mindset of the second group:
- don't matter what, today I get the lifestyle that I desire!!!
This is the type of guy driven by desire, the type of guy that really want to close and that will try for sure (you can't imagine how many guys reject because "they don't know what to say, so they don't try neither).
Why I talked about it??? Does this mindset is important to kiss girls that I just met???
Well it isn't important to get the actual ability, but if you have it you probably already kiss girls at the beginning of the interactions and fuck close in a daily basis. Is hard to start picking up girls, you have to learn how to calibrate and all that stuff, but as soon as you can take some number you can learn pretty fast to kiss close and fuck close.
Why I always kiss girls I just met
- Reason number one
If you do it at the beginning of the interaction, let say from a minute to two minutes form the opener, the whole pick up becomes easier. Even if at the first time she reject you she will be more open and interested 'cause guys don't usually do it.
She will aspect sex from you, you have shown what you want, so if she kiss you she knows that you two are going to fuck sooner or later.
Your statistics will grow sky high, instantly!!!
At one point during my journey I switched from the second category to the third category. One of the first things that changed in the way I had to pick up girls was the fact that I started trying to kiss girls, and even if some of them would have rejected my kisses they would have gave me their numbers. My statistics jumped from 2 numbers every 5 approaches to 4 numbers every 5 approaches, and the numbers were also more solid.
How to kiss a girl you just met
The whole point was that trying to kiss a girl isn't risky and that it's a natural thing to do, anyway, you can always increase your chances:
- be intense
with being intense I mean: 1 hold a firm eye contact, 2 make sure that you are transmitting confidence from your body language, 3 don't hide your intents.
You want to make the sexual tension rise and being able to kiss her without having to move too much.
Sometimes I like to let her know that I'm going to kiss her, but I also think that if you can't calibrate that well if you just kiss her you get more kisses.
If you are gonig to do it at the beginning of the interaction the only attraction you can create comes from your confidence so you want to head the conversation and do it with balls, if she rejects your first kiss is crucial that you can go on, that's
the difference from a bad boy and a nice guy: the nice guy it's wounded, the bad boy knows that he will kiss her later.
CHAT