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| SilvioDante | PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:44 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:30 am Posts: 7 | | Hi gang, long time lurker first time poster need some assistance on this one please.
Met a girl few months back at a club, she's a photographer and so am I and we got chatting about cameras and such, she was with someone but it looked on the rocks, I didn't do anything as I had a ton of other stuff to deal with in life, she's now left him and is doing that break-up sleeping around thing and is all "I feel so free and sexually liberated" ect, now we've never spoke about sex before and we ended up talking about it and f-buddies and the like for a while and she kept talking naughty stuff and I believe she's had some other guy already a few times and is talking about getting an f-buddy.
she's a mother of three and two of which are special needs and thus I imagine after this liberated sleeping around stuff which I attribute to her trying to hurt her ex and feel better about herself, I reckon she'll eventually come back to the conclusion of prioritising the looking after of her kids and getting a fellah who will help her raise them or get back with her ex.
Now I've got two questions really, I'm wondering was she telling me about all this sex stuff and talking openly about it because she was trying to get me to get something going with her, was she trying to tease me and gauge my reaction or was it because she simply doesn't see me as a threat sexually?
I fancy her but I'm older than her[I'm 36 and she's 27] and I don't wanna look pervy as that's a bit sad and I need to seem mature and dependable, but I don't wanna get involved if I'm just a rebound guy as I've got other girls to persue instead, so based on the info above can you guy's give me any insight?
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| DW-Heart-Charmer | PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2015 3:32 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Mon May 20, 2013 11:48 pm Posts: 405 Location: Denver | | I don't get what the purpose of this post is. What are you trying to do? Is it that you want to have sex with this girl or that you want to become the boyfriend/substitute dad in this situation?
I don't judge either way, but you need to decide and take the lead either way. You can pussy foot around whatever it is you think she wants, but your place of power comes from going after what you want.
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