These were the words said to me at one point or another on Thursday night from a girl I was making out in bed with. So what does it mean?

I'll put this in context, I've known this girl for almost a year now, we became good friends during the last winter season, we skied together an awful lot and generally hung out. Towards the end of the winter season we became quite close, after nights out we often ended up staying in the same bed although nothing really happened.

So over the last six weeks I've noticed a tension building between us, our friendship changed a little as we no longer ski together, I am an expert downhill mountain biker, she has only just started so we go out in much different groups, however we still hangout a lot together and over various evenings we have shared a bed, got drunk together, held hands and gone and done a few other activities together.

Then, a week ago three of us went out for a few drinks by the lake. By the end of the night me and this girl were making out and went back to her place and made out some more. It didn't go much further than that but she did seem a little confused by what was happening. So I was a little confused. Then on Thursday night a similar thing happened although neither of us were really that drunk.

Now this is the confusing part, every now and then she would stop then groan as if she were doing something wrong and would say something like "this is weird". She says she's not good at talking about these things. I didn't give her much of a response and we carried on making out, we were both topless by the end of the night (I know she isn't an easy girl, I've actually never known her to kiss another guy and she is very attractive). In the morning we briefly kissed again before going to work.

So there you go, I'm a little confused as to where I stand with this one. One part of me thinks she must be pretty keen to have me in her bed and make out with me, the other part asks how interested can a girl be if she finds it weird, and why does she find it weird? I'm talking myself through what the best next approach is and I'm kind of at a loss, we normally message each other quite a bit anyway. churrs

You blew it. You listened to her words and not her actions.

Google "how to handle last minute resistance"

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Girls giving LMR is a fucking beautiful thing. Once you learn to deal with it properly, it's predictable and cute. It's like when girls start asking if you're a player... they're only asking because they want you, and they want to know what they're getting themselves into. Girls give last minute resistance because sex should be the guys fault. They want to be able to say how it "just happened" and it was "your fault" lol. They give LMR when they're at their most horny. You were well in.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

If you've got any good reading material send me a link. I get what you're saying though, determined to get this right next time be it her or another girl

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jd91hMmyjM i haven't watched this but i am sure it's good.

Don't worry, you won't make that mistake again I guess..

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