Evening Gents,
I'm going to try and keep this short and sweet. Met a girl online a month ago and have been on 4 great dates since (5+ hours out with one another having fun, laughing, deep comfort/getting to know one another). We've also held hands, and kissed as of date 1 and more recently touched each others more unmentionable parts (No Sex yet though, I did look to escalate things to that point but she kept shooting me down, ie. it's too soon, blah blah). She always texts me the day after a date (sometimes right after the date - told me to text her when I got home, which I didn't do so she texted me the next day asking if I got home safe) and keeps up communication every day (I delay/vary my text back times as I'm busy and such).

That is until last weekend where we made plans to have dinner in at her place (per her suggestion following date #4). She texted me the night before saying I should bring a bottle of wine to test my knowledge (per previous date convo) and everything seemed smooth sailing until 3 hours before our meet-up. She texted me saying she was stuck upstate with friends due to her ride being too drunk to drive... Could we do the next day (memorial day). I had plans the next day and couldn't do it so I suggest two other week days.

She said "that would be great! your choice!" so I replied by picking the day and saying "did you still want to dinner in?" as to not force things. She said "Sure!" so I mentioned a time (this past Thursday) and said I'll see you then. We went radio silence for a few days which hasn't been typical so I let things be. This past Wednesday I get another cancelling text from her saying she's sorry this week is crazy with work and that she thinks next week will "hopefully" be better.

I didn't reply to her text as I had nothing of value to reply with (She cancelled her own rescheduled date/thus two in a row so I just moved on to texting other women I've been talking to). I very much like this girl as she has some great qualities, but bad behavior after good cannot be ignored. Do you think I'm being too harsh with the radio silence (she hasn't texted me either) or should I reach out in some form next week? Not to plan a date, but to open lines of communication once again. I'm totally fine with leaving things as is, I've already got other women I'm planning on seeing this week.... just looking for a little perspective. Thanks!

That's two last-minute flakes.

I don't blame you for not replying -- I probably wouldn't either. Shit happens, so one flake is excusable with a decent reason. Two is just disrespectful of your time.

Exactly my thinking as well, The first cancellation didn't even include an apology and it took her until the next day to respond and work out the new plan. Shit does happen and I was cool after the first one but a second in a row with a BS excuse is exactly as you said.... disrespectful of my time. I'm cutting her loose and will only speak to her again if she makes the first move.