Yesterday, I started talking to this hot well-endowed blonde chick at my gym. I find out she is married with multiple children. Her husband, apparently, is on the road roughly 3 weeks out of every month. I noted that and continued the conversation. We talked about a bunch of stuff, including eventually nightlife, she inquired about a new Martini Bar and I offered to take there, and buy her the first round. I texted her something funny last night and I will text her again tomorrow.

I am looking for tips/advice regarding sarging married women. I have no illusions that this may not lead anywhere, or that she may just be looking for something platonic. Still though, I got the feeling this woman might be open to something more; but, that could be me blowing smoke up my own ass. Thanks PUAForum.

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And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

I'm just going to say don't do it.
1)karma is a bitch
2)you don't know what her husband could do to you. You are wanting to ruin someone's entire family.

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Agreed. Frankly, I avoid everything on this forum that deals with fucking married chicks, chicks with long term boyfriends, strawman technique, all that shit.

I'm here to learn how to attract single girls until I find the girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with. I'm not here to learn how to ruin families, relationships etc. It's not cool.

Here's the black knight of the forum checking in.

Morality aside, treat her as if she's single. Don't acknowledge the fact that she has a bf, husband, whatever. It's irrelevant. If it were, she weren't there with you.

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I gotta agree with the other posters (not R.C --- though no offense buddy, it's simply another angle and perfectly fine advice)...

I get the argument that it's HER that's cheating... But it still takes two, dude... and she's got kids.

You'll quite literally be a homewrecker. It's not my thing... but hey, if it's yours, I guess you can always take solace in the fact that if she didn't cheat with you, it sure sounds like she'd be cheating with someone else.

I'd weigh the risks before heading into this one, personally.

Sounds like he is looking for advice on how to score this hunnie not for a moral compass. She's giving you her number even though she is married. I take this as a good sign...

It's up to you so read on, but I don't want you to down the line feel bad about what you've done.

So I'll say it loud and clear think of the family instead of your dick because your dick can get enjoyment elsewhere, but this family will be hit like a fucking hurricane if the truth ever came out.

All this aside if you really want to go into this thing that is your choice and that is up to you. R.C has great advice and that is to think of her like a single woman, mainly because well she is acting like one.

You already got her number so you're in unless you do something incredibly stupid. So my advice is to be confident, flirtatious and get your homerun then get the fuck out before her husband comes, finds you and puts you in the hospital or worse haha

So in other words be tactful and make sure she's not wanting to get caught to stick it to her husband. Females do that kinda shit all the time and poor you will be oblivious and FUCKED...not in the good way at all.


I agree with most of these posters though, bad idea and I'm sure if you were married and a had a family you wouldn't want this kinda shit happening. But I'm not here to play on some high moral plane, but like I said there are many other targets, easier targets, single targets, targets that aren't filled with drama like this one. So my final advice is be smart and go get a different one.

So I gave all different options. Good luck with whatever you choose.

None taken. I know my opinion on that matter is a bit unpopular.

Much love.

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