Online first date HB8

Went to some bar to see live guitar/singer music thurs.
Had a few drinks, then she suggested we bounce.
Stop by her place to drop cars off so we can really drink at a bar close to her apartment.
End up drinking at her place.
F-close. A few times. Drunken. Not great sex. I leave about an hr later or 2. (Not that into her)

Woke up next day and for some reason, much more into her.
A few quick texts on fri nothing major. A quick joke or 2. I say I'm going out with the boys. She responds she's going out somewhere else.

Text hi on Sat. She responds but slower than than usual. 5 minutes between. Finally I'm like I wanna see you again. U free Mon or Wed?

20 minutes of silence.

Me:"hello? haha"

Her: "Wednesday"

Me: "Sounds good. Gotta get some errands done. Ttyl"

She hits me up a couple hrs. later. 2 or 3 quick joke texts back and forth.

No def. plans made and for some reason I'm sensing a flake. Everytime I go on my OKCupid she's on.

I do have quite a few other options lined up too, so not the end of the world if this one doesn't work out, but I'd like to try to salvage it.

How to proceed?

(I do speak good English, by the way. Just wanted to get the story out there without creating a wall of text no one wants to read.)

Good job closing her. Next time you should spend the night with her after having sex to build comfort. She is probably a little more distant because you left so soon after sex. Keep doing what you're doing and send her a ping text on Wednesday to confirm the date.

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Thanks. Yeah just gettin' a flake vibe. So you're thinking no contact till the day of the date?

Depends how far out the date is. If the date is at most a week away, send her a ping text at least a few days before to have you in her mind and remember about the date in case she double books with something else. Have a few light and playful texts and send her a confirmation text the day of.

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