I went on a date with a girl about a month ago, K closed at the end. Then met up with her again a week later and we kissed loads of times, as far as it went was me touching her legs etc. I texted her Wednesday saying:

"What are your plans this weekend sexy?"

HB9: "Probably suffering hangover on satuday, Not much else, just getting myself organised for my trip "

Me: "Hahaha brilliant. We should catch up at some point x"

Her: "Yeah totally... What you doing? x

Me: "Meeting college friends Friday, not sure about Sat yet... Guess I better see you at some point...

She replies today (Friday) saying: "Well, yeah it would be a pretty amaz opportunity youd be missing out on otherwise But that's cool, I'm in {college friends town} tonight too so may end seeing you thenn x"

The town we've been on dates in is 30 miles away from where I live, so other than inviting her to stay with me at uni, I don't know how we can escalate. I should mention I'm a virgin. We've only spent maybe 3 or 4 hours together so I don't know if she'll be up for coming to stay with me...

Do you think she's keen by her texts? She obviously took a while to reply on the last one.

She is attracted enough to you to sleep with you.

In order to close the deal make her drive to you... put on a movie... kino the shit out of her and see how she reacts... anything positive move it into heavy making out... then take her close off and have sex.

Its really that simple... but to a virgin we tend to over-think and over complicate the situation. I know this because I too was a virgin and I know how hard it was to escalate that first time.

**The key is to just assume its on at all times and that shes going to go with whatever you choose to do with her.** ASSUME IT. thats what you would do with a girlfriend right?

I have been dating a HB9 for a year now and every time she comes over or I visit her its ASSUMED we have sex. Anything different would be weird. You must have that mindset.

Best,
Duke

I've been more upfront with her. I replied

Me: "Haha oh yeah? Following me everywhere aren't you... Still not completely sure what I'm up to tonight. I'm in town tomorrow. Let's do something fun Sunday? X"

Her: "Hahaa seems to be the case Yeah, what do have in mind? X"

Me: "I guess I better take you out for dinner I have loads of coupons for McDonald's as well... X"

Her: "You know what a girl wants ) hahaa x"

Me: "Hahaha. If you're good, I know a nice place... x"

Her: "Hahaa Im always an absolute pleasure tom! would you be tempted by an afternoon coffee/chill instead by any chance? x"

Am I about to get friendzone? Part of me thinks I should just say I forgot and made plans. What so you suggest? I met a model at the gym today, only got her facebook, and have a girl staying round next week so I'm trying not to get oneitis.

I've been out three times with the HB9, and when I saw her today, I told her to come and stay with me at university this coming week, to which she replied yes. As she dropped me off to see my friend, I told her to text when she was got home as I knew "what her driving was like" and she has. Saying;

"I made it back! Haha yipee! Have a good evening x" at 17:52.

To which I haven't replied yet. I was thinking of just texting her tomorrow and asking her to confirm when she's coming up. Do you think that's a good idea?

She generally can take a while to respond, but she's quite receptive in person, and we've kissed a lot.