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I like your wording of the text, in light of the social status you said she possesses. Just give it a day or two and hit her up again. Ask a question about some inside thing only the two of you would know about.
This and remember that you are dealing with a woman in her forties and they don't respond the same way after sex as women do all the way up to their early to mid thirties. They are at the point in their life where they are logical and cynical at the same time, so they see through a lot of bullshit. Be friendlier and less gamey and at the same time be more direct. Your text would probably be considered a not straight forward enough for her and doesn't have the time to come up with a cute response. I'm speaking of the "little babe" part of your text.