Hey guys,

I was hoping I could get some advice here. My long-term girlfriend and I broke up when I moved back up to school again this fall. Luckily, I moved into a fraternity house where we throw tons of parties and plenty of hot girls are always around.

I'm a pretty social guy, have no problem approaching girls, no problem #-closing pretty easily.

But I've got 2 problems.

1. I find it hard to get these girls to come upstairs to my room.
2. I'm terrible at k-closing these girls. What do I say, when do I say it, etc.

I'm literally talking 90-200 people in my living room, a set of stairs away from my bed. So there's definitely something I'm not doing right.

Anyways, I can elaborate more in detail if necessary, but I'm looking for some advice if anyone's willing to help me out.

Thanks.

What do you do currently? It may be easier to fix what you're doing wrong.

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In short?

I'm friendly, outgoing, I try to take charge of the conversations, etc.

Girls notice I'm a nice guy to be around.

I just don't know what to do/say to get them to kiss me, and the same for bringing them upstairs.

First off, IMO, you're not describing the guy that is attractive to women. You're describing a nice guy to be around.

If you're not actively trying to target a woman and seduce her you're basically just a friend to hang out with at a party. If you are making it clear that your intent in her is sexual (even though you are only hoping for a kiss) and she is enjoying your advances, it would be simple to get her into your room where it is a bit quieter to "talk". If she makes it to your room, it's an indication that she's interested in the possibility of doing more than just talking and getting a kiss should be really easy.

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Okay, makes sense. Which I guess brings me to problem #2; k-closing them. It's been 2 years since I've had to actively figure out how to do it (because I was with my girlfriend), so I'm at a loss for what to do.

There are plenty of posts on how to escalate from talking to kino (which should have started before you make it to your room) and then to kissing, so it would be pretty redundant to do it here. My advice is make sure you are bold enough to do it when you want to do it. The fact that she's made it up to your room means that she's comfortable enough to be alone with you. She would probably be disappointed if you don't kiss her. All you have to do is ensure that she is comfortable being in your room while continuing the escalation.

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Cool, thanks for the step in the right direction.