Hey artist's!

Hope their can be some advices on my very confused situation, with an actually GF potential girl

Age group: she's 25, I'm 21.

The fast how it escalated story?
Tinder..
Got an match with her a couple of weeks ago.
Out of the proberly hundreds of girl iv'e ben writing with, she is/was the absolut funniest og smartest of them all (but acutally not the best looking though).

So after small two weeks of writing, i met up with her at an bar and had a few drinks, with her and her our friends. After leaving her and the place that night, she were very fast to text me, that she have had an awesome time with me, and that she would loooove to see me a lot more (so far so good)

2'nd date?
Yep! We went out for our first real date, this Tuesday. It went really really well, i have to think.
After a couple of cocktails and some tapas at a pretty fancy place, i followed her back to her car.
I made her laugh so fucking hard, and then went for the kiss.
She kissed back (YES!), and ask me if i wanted to go and see this movie on friday.
I said yes, and we called it a night.

What's the problem dude?
After that night, she haven't really ben up to any writing (on the phone), or contact..
Aka. she does not seem interested at all! I have tried getting an conversation flowing a couple of times, but it runs out with her not answering, and me getting confused.
- I have to put down, that I under all circumstances of this, have not ben pushy with all at.
- She's a girl with a lot of friends and business stuff, so I know that she's busy doing other things.
But with those to things combined, nothing is now happening.. Especially compared to how it have ben the previous weeks.

Why not just move on? She's just an tinder girl?
In the past six months i have closed about 12 girls from tinder, or other places.
So now that i have finally found a girl that i actually like, i want to give a try.
Therefore this post.

The question is:
What the hell to do?!
- Wait for her to maybe catch up again, otherwise just move on?
- Or try to ask her about it? (If she want's to see me)

Hope my English is good enough for all you to understand what the hell i'm talking about.

Thank you for reading.

Your English is perfect. Well as online goes anyway.

You're right there's nothing to do. I don't care what others say on here, this seems like a lost cause...you could wait it out...text her and say "We should get together sometime again"

Always use SHOULD it implies something that she SHOULD be doing which means it will be fun and something that she's not doing so basically in a stealthy way you're telling her brain that she's missing out and defying her natural design to be going out with you.

Basically in less words....IT'S A SURE THING...SO WHY NOT?

There's nothing you can do except text or whatever real fast and get a simple meet-up...that way you know for sure if she's dodging...if she brushes you off more than once I'd call it a day and hang it all up.

I don't use texting for lengthy conversations when casually dating, now if it's a SERIOUS thing as in a relationship then that be good. But this was ONLY ONE date...you're right why shouldn't you move on?

The simple fact is you somehow believe she's the one because you really liked her and she showed interest...

Well I'll tell you another fact her disinterest is telling you that you are possibly making a mistake about her being the one...I would say relax and cool it, don't get caught up with just one girl after ONE date....in fact don't get caught up with any girl and look like a boy who got his candy stolen and is fighting for it back.

You need to control this situation, you need to be calm and understanding...you said she's busy maybe that's it...so leave a passive text like I said with no pressure...give it like 2 DAYS at minimum and if no word try ONCE more then hang it all up.

Good luck, any other advice you need be sure to PM me...I love helping individuals with my knowledge...I help males and females alike.

Nothing wrong with just asking her to hang Friday.

You don't have to mention the movie or your plans or the fact she's been distant.

Text or give her a ring - say you just saw someone who reminded you of her and thought you'd see if she wanted to meet up.

At least you'll have your answer.