Hey, this is my first post. I met a girl through Okcupid and we met up for a drink on Monday. We had good rapport, I did a lot of kino, and kissed her at the end of the night. I know it's better kiss her halfway through the date, but this is the first date I've been on since I ended my three year relationship a few weeks back, and I basically pussed out. Anyway, I texted her today telling her I was watching a movie with some red wine on Sunday night, and this was her reply: I'm actually visiting home this weekend (out of state), that sounds like fun though. Which movie? Oh and if you wanted I think next Sunday's pay what you want at the art museum if you wanted to do that (and if you have the arm strength lol) let me know!

I'm recovering from an Achilles' Tendon surgery and am on crutches, so that's what the arm strength comment is about. What does it mean that she is suggesting a date like the museum when I'm pushing for wine and a movie? Is it possible she just wants to take it slow, or am I being setup to get FZ? Also, what are your thoughts on accepting a date she suggests? I'm not opposed to letting her setup the date, but I also don't want to set a record of complying to her wishes when I have my own agenda.

Thanks

I doubt she wants to take things slow if she's suggesting the dates man, also just cause she wants to go to museum doesn't cancel out the movie. Make a day of it!

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

Good point about turning it into a day. I didn't even think about that.

Go for a walking/interactive date over a movie every time, buddy.

You can't talk during a movie... or look at each other.

Museum would give you many opportunities to escalate.

Solid that she's the one suggesting it too... Good sign.

Walking is tough because I'm on crutches, but you're right, interactive is definitely better. As far as a movie goes, I was suggesting something back at my place rather than at a theater. I'm going to take dirtypreacher's suggestion and bridge the museum and movie back at my place together.

Oh fuck - if it's back at your place that's TOTALLY different.

You can escalate big time there.

That's certainly preferable.

Is there a reason you can't do both?