I have a "movie night" at my place lined up with a HB7.5 on Thursday. 3rd date and I thought I'd blown it because I haven't kissed her yet (she's quite shy and I think I incorrectly judged this as an IOD when I should have just gone for it). Anyway, we've built up a lot of comfort and I'm pretty sure attraction is there (she's coming over to watch a movie, after all, and it's date 3), although she's not that flirtatious by nature and doesn't initiate kino.

She's very comfortable when I kino her though, and she's very compliant with what I suggest we do... so I think it's just because she's shy. Whatever... I'm just going to assume she likes me because this is make or break time where I need to k-close her at the very least.

Because this is date 3 and I still haven't kissed her yet, I'm thinking of just going very direct towards the start of the evening, telling her I have a surprise, telling her to close her eyes and then kissing her.

Or should I wait for the right moment and do it later on? She might be surprised if I come out with that right off the bat in the first few minutes before we put on the movie, and maybe we need some build up first. She is usually a bit anxious at the start of the date.

Maybe I'm just over thinking it. There's no doubt I'm going to attempt to k-close her, and I have no problem going direct if it's the best way forward. I guess I'm just looking for some second (more experienced) opinions on what the best way to approach this is.

Thanks,

AA

Make her relaxed and comfortable at first. Then kino a lot and build up sexual tension.

The whole point is to make her want you so bad, that when you by the end of the night lean in for the kiss, it will turn out to a complete make-out session, and you can escalate from there.

I see you just made a user today, though. Have you done anything PUA related earlier? Read and/or practiced?

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Hey man, thanks for the advice.

A few years ago I read quite a lot of PUA stuff but I was at college at the time and got mixed results with it. I didn't focus enough on building comfort, and got stuck after attraction. Now I am returning more seriously. This time I'm fully focussed, getting out in the field and there's no excuses. I've recently discovered James Marshall and have been getting some good results down that style of PUA, which seems more natural to my personality.

But anyway, yeh, I really just want to get out in the field a lot, be part of this community and learn! Thanks for the welcome

Good for you, man!

If you lurk around the forums a bit, you'll find a lot of good information. Just manage to filter through the bs You could also check out this thread under 'Recommended Reading' for some more books! The most important thing is to get out there and see what works for you though.

Since you've allready read a little, I would refresh my memory on creating sexual tension, escalation and closing before your movie date!

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Also push/pull and playful flirt to build it up. Touch her hair etc. but stop after a few seconds then try something else.