Hello there!

Sorry for the wall of text, if you dont feel like reading it all just read the TL;DR version.

I just got back from my holiday in Greece. We were four guys who went to Rhodes and had the time of our lives. During the last night before we were due to fly home, I met a HB9.

It started when I was on the dance floor and did my thing when suddenly I feel a knock on my shoulder. I turn around and see a HB9 that looks a little angry and she says "excuse me, can you let me through" "of course, but only if you can give me a smile first!" I replied. I did not think much about it and started dancing with some other people inside the club. 5-10 minutes later I see the same girl dancing beside me. We make eye contact with each other again and smile while we are moving closer together.

I dance with her ​​for maybe 3-4 minutes before I do my standard move, meaning that I take her hand spins her one turn then right after that I pull her against me then she was hooked! We stand and dance / make out for maybe 10 minutes before I say "it's so damn hot in here, come we go out "and takes her hand and walks outdoors.

When I hook up with someone on the dance floor I always try to make the first 5 minutes as fun as possible, without looking like a clown.

We stand there and talk to each other, Im making statements, making us guess each others names etc. before I run the 5 question game. We agreed that the loser would have to buy 2 shots each (blueberry shots so it was like candy). After the drinks we went back to the club to dance a little and I met her friends whom I introduced to my friends, so that I would not get cock blocked later.

After about an hour we left the club and decide to eat some. We bring our midnight snack out and put us on a completely deserted beach. So we're all alone sitting and looking at the stars and have a good time together. Thinking that it's time to make my final move and go in for it. I start to steer the topic of conversation into the fact that I like adventurous girls and ask where the craziest place she's had sex on. Boom! Out of nowhere 15 people came down to the beach and the SPAM was destroyed. By now the time was like 5 in the morning. Me and the HB9 got along great with each other, having similar interests, same kind of humour, in other words life was good.

Knowing that her friends are in her hotel room and my buddies are in my hotel and on the beach there are also alot of people I started thinking to myself "this is not gonna happen tonight". We sit and talk a little more on the beach until around 5:30 when it starts to get light out and we decide to move towards the hotel.
As we walk, I remember that we have a roof terrace at the hotel and it is never used by the other guests. I get the brilliant idea of ​​where we can go. Said and done, after a quick pit stop at the hotel room to get a blanket and some water, we go up to the roof and I f-close her.

We're lying down spooning / sleeping until the clock is 07,30. Then both her ​​and my phone rings. We both were flying home from Greece this day so we had to pack. I follow her to her hotel, where she says she has had a very good evening, taking her phonenumber and make out a bit more before we part.

I sent the following text last night:
"Hello HB9: It was nice meeting you yesterday, I had an amazing night! / (Inside joke we had)"
"Heyy ye it was now im on the airport on my way home to my bed you having fun partying?" Was her response.
In sent her a total of 3 messages because I wanted to be the one ending the conversation.

The thing is, she lives a 1 hour flight away from me so my normal routine with going on a date wont work. I need to game her on like facebook + text + snapchat and then maybe if all goes well I can set up a meet.
My question is, how would you guys suggest I take it from here? Just straight up ask for facebook or what, I have no clue what to do. Never been in a similiar situation before and I can imagine it being pretty hard to keep the flame alive without meeting. But I'll take any help I can get!

TL: DR: Met a girl on vacation, we connected really well and I f-closed and got her number. But since we live a 1 hour flight away from eachother I cant just go on a date with her​​. And since I've never fallen for a girl this much, especially not after just one night together, I need all the help I can get from you guys on how I move forward from this point.

After skimming your back story and reading the 'meat' paragraph, my thoughts reflect this statement.

I get it, it's cool, you met a hot girl you click with and fucks like a wet fuzzy bunny... NICE.

BUT, here's the thing.

Your still wearing your 'Beer Goggles'.

Don’t confuse lust and love, or in your words 'falling', lust, is that overwhelming gripping state of mind when you see someone that you’d love to crawl all over with your mouth and hands and then find yourself fortunate enough to have a damn good down home fuck-fest with.

Currently your little head is telling your big head what to do.

When in a state of lust a person makes all kinds of foolish and costly decisions for which there can be a full lifetime of regret. So, keep your options open, stay in contact, but stay grounded and don't blow your bank roll on the 1st winning horse.

You can bet she's rationalizing this all over in her pretty little head, likely already through processing.

Including her next doors to step through.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

hmm if she's really a HB9 she's got eligible guys knockin at all times. so props for banging her but i'd echo heywood, stay in contact but don't expect much out of this and don't get too invested. proximity matters. you gonna fly twice a week to see this chick? you gonna move for her?

i think if you could legitimately reconfigure your mindset to something like "a HB9 is a HB9 is a HB9" you'd be in a lot better shape. i've been working on thinking that way and not only does it help in these scenarios that clearly are not ideal, it also makes you even more attractive to the other HB9's because they pick up on the vibe that you're outcome indifferent and that you'll have no problem getting someone else if things don't work out.

if she is that interested in you you'll hear from her, or when you contact her she'll be very receptive to the idea of meeting up. it always works that way. if you try to meet up and she gives an excuse and doesn't counteroffer, you're out. "when they like you, they make it easy."

honestly though the best thing to do is put this one in your trophy case and find a local HB9...

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

Great post and advice ... I agree with all of the advice given and just wanted to give this a bump ... for the value that it brings

Cheers