ok so on my way back from a vacation on thursday night i n-closed an hb9.5

i can only imagine how many guys ask for her number, and if she chooses to give it out, how many guys call after two days. i decided to be a little bit less cautious and call the next night around 7. no answer, goes to voicemail, left a message saying my first name and mentioning something that related to what we were talking about when we met, then invited her to a party and left my cell number.

a couple hours later i was at the party and i lost reception on my phone - i still don't have it. i'm going to the shop today to get it fixed, but the point is, how do i know if she called? is it appropriate to call back? i was thinking of calling on sunday night and saying "hey my phone lost reception the other night, sorry you couldn't come, let's get together tomorrow" or something along those lines.

any suggestions?

thanks

I don't like it.. you sound too needy.. who cares if she couldn't come.. you were there and had a good time without her. I'd wait longer then call

ya true. i just threw that out there so u guys knew what i was talking about.

how long do i wait, and what would i say?

i have a very good success rate with n-closes but i havent started phoning back until now.

I would wait 2-3 days and give her a call. Don't mention the party to her anymore. Ask her how she is doing and how was her trip back from vacation. I would invite her to another social event such as a party or bar w/e

so Sunday or Monday afternoon/night?

thanks for the help

call monday night. this way you can ask her how her weekend was

Ok i just gave her a call. It rang for a while then it went dead, meaning she pressed ignore (it happens with my ex's phone too). She's either at school, at work, or doesn't want to talk to me. Should I delete the number and call it a lost cause? There's no way i can't seem needy now if she doesn't call back.

Wait a day or 2, if she doesn't call back, delete her number.

Ok thanks a lot for your help man

I was thinking maybe I could send a text later in the week saying my phone has been really fucked up but whats up?

maybe im just having one-itis haha... SARGING TONIGHT TO MAKE UP FOR THIS FLAKE

I can definitely see how that article helped. Just to give you a slight comparison I met a girl on Valentine's day and she was absolutely enthralled. I had kept both the obstacle and the target well entertained for the night. Since then, I had yet to talk to her on the phone until tonight. Our conversations were either through text messages and a combination of her responses, or lack thereof, to my voicemails. Surprisingly, despite these apparent negative signals she text'd me one and half weeks after we met asking me "not to give up on her."

Keep your head up high Ruf.

Thanks man! I went out last night with some buddies and just didnt even worry about it. You're right. PS: good luck with V-girl

just an update for this situation... i sent a text saying "hey my phones been fucked up all week but whatsup loser" and got nothing back.. its been 24 hrs now. im deleting the number and moving on. i'll probably see her in the club this weekend cause my city is relatively small... i think ill just ignore her.

nobody said this shit was 100% but i still believe in it

Don't delete the number! Just wait a week and keep her in rotation. Honestly, you shouldn't care in the first place and if it is a random girl, who cares that you keep in touch with her on your own terms.