So I Just had a 1st date with a really hot girl who works with me, bit younger so looks up to myself, who has been describing me as the "king of the workplace", previously stated she'd like her next bf to be older. We have chemistry and it has always been really good and fun but when I asked her on a 2nd date she's said she had "really great time but doesn't want to get into this because you're (me) going away soon"

I feel like me going abroad for a month at the end of next month has unsettled her and put her off and she did ask this time question on our date but I thought I handled it ok by staying positive. Fair enough I would soon be going to college and she'd be at school when I return and we did talk abut this on the date but I was keen to emphasise the amount of time I do have and how close id be to home at college (less than 1 hour away)

So should I persuade her I'm worth another shot or would this look bad? Throughout the date she was constantly preening her hair, dilated pupils and smiling, engaged so I know she physically feels attracted it's just convincing her LMR for a second date.

Advice to convince her it's worth seeing me or any other 2 cents?

I'll see her in a couple of days at work so need to have a plan by then ideally!

Thanks!

TAM

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