Hey guys,

I saw this HB10 on a regular basis at the gym, we talked a lot, I neged and teased her and I got her number last week. A few days after getting the number I texted her: "Are you shy? You had my number for two days and you still haven't asked me out. "

She responds two days later: "Hahaha, awesome, you know I am a little shy "

I waited three days to respond to that:" I thought you were more open and fun than other women. I am a bit disappointed now. "

And then I told her we will be getting drinks Monday evening at a local pub so she can get over her shyness.
She said she would like to but we will talk on Sunday to confirm, she might not have time. :/

I could use some advice on what to text her back in case she flakes? I know I can get her if we go get drinks, I love interacting with people face to face so that isn't a problem. My text game sucks a bit :/

Getting a number that quality is a BIG accomplishment so pat your self on the back

but you should have been more aggressive---( my goal is close in 48 hours after I get the number, it keeps the emotions high and they tend to make dumb decisions when emotions are high)
BUT doesnt that look desperate? yes it can BUT what I do is blame my job or situation for the urgency, "i'm super busy this week but id love to fit you in so lets plan something"


you can save it though

just say you were busy last week so sorry you didn't make plans sooner

and just forget everything you've txt her already pretend it never happened


LETS SAVE THIS-

1st - Step on her Line---TXT her and just say Hi talk to her for a sec, build rapport find out what shes up too and tease her a little about what ever she's doing or saying make her laugh lots of smile faces blah blah THEN all of the sudden send her a SAD FACE

2nd- THEN wait for her to say something i.e. whats wrong? what is it? ect.... AFTER SHE responds SAY THIS "I'm so sorry I can't make it Monday I just found out I have to XYZ, I had no idea this was gonna come up I'm so sorry"

THEN change your mood to more happy and playful via a smile face after THIS TXT "don't worry though I will still figure out how I can fit you in my schedule "

3rd- THEN TXT THIS "how about i call you tomorrow and ill figure out a time we can get together"(try not to txt between this and the phone call) (yes tomorrows saturday call her tomorrow)

4th CALL her and make her laugh and feel comfortable with you over the phone

-THEN SAY "I have a crazy busy week coming up, and I WANT 'YOU' TO GET TO SEE ME BEFORE next weekend so im actually free tomorrow around 9:30 if you wanna come over and have a drink (yes tomorrow means Sunday) (also come up with something to say that makes you busy until 9 then you gotta shower and you wanna relax as its Sunday)

5th THEN SAY WITHOUT yes without LEAVING ROOM FOR A RESPONSE TO YOUR 9:30 Sunday invintation--

"I would invite you to my place for a drink tonight (meaning Saturday) but I wont be free until 10:30ish (say something that keeps you busy until 10:30ish)"


WHY????? Don't leave room for a response after you invite her over because your about to lead into why tonight wont work and thats IMPORTANT BECUASE subconsciously you are saying SHE WOULD come to your house right now but YOUR busy it'll have to wait . ... also this leaves room for her after to say "10:30 is actually perfect" then BAM set it up


this video can help too youtu.be/I_-EjXEvH2c (copy paste in browser)