Hi,

on Saturday, I met this girl I hadn't seen for almost a year. We both got pretty drunk, I took her dancing to a club, we made out and ended up in my apartment. I didn't fuck her though because I was too drunk to get it up, so I just went down on her

I could tell she felt bad for what she has done and the morning was awkward; I do want to get her into bed again (with no alcohol involved this time), but I am not sure what to do. BTW she's a nice girl, she probably only had sex with one guy before (with her boyfriend who she left a year ago).

I messaged her yesterday:

Me (yesterday): hi, how was your hangover, did it last until Monday like mine did? if you have time tommorow, we can go and grab a glass of wine or two

Her (today): hi, the hangover was hard, fortunately I cured it with more alcohol the next day I don't have time today, I already said I would go wall climbing

Now, that might be an excuse and may not. How do I ask her out again without coming across as needy?

You give it a few days and ask again -

If she's got another excuse and doesn't propose a different time/day then she's got some buyer's remorse and you're out, my friend.