Hi there,

first some basic iformation.
im 22, 1.85 weight around 113kg im a bodybuilder, im a kind person sometime's to kind.

so i am chatting with this girl from my school now for like 3 month's now she's 21 and she is a mother but the dad of the child left her. she lives on herself with her kid and her little brother of 14 y/o her father lives somewhere else and here mother lives in another land. so its a girl that has been trough alot.

I really like this girl and we went on the first date about 2,5 weeks a go, went to the movies and it was all good and we kissed after the movie we went to have a milkshake and the we kissed some more and then i take her to her place and i went home. for me its not about getting her in to bed, i really like her and want her to be my girl.

i hate it that i only speak with her on SPAM or facebook whatever, i want to see her in real.

so now she was sick for a week after our date so i couldn't ask her out, but we still texting and talking alot and when she was better i asked i she want to see a movie next friday and she said yes then that date didn't happen because her family came by and she cant say: you cant come i go see a movie with some guy.

now i dont want to be to demanding you know. i dont want to push her away by asking and asking.

so you read the story, what is the best way to ask her on a second date, i cant go by her place because she dont want that her kid get used to someone and than that person disepears if it wont workout.

how would you act in my situation, just wait until she brings it up? of do i have to ask it. how should you ask it. please give me some tips advice. and sorry for the bad bad english.

peace out.

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get big or die trying.

Sometimes the easiest route to go is to just throw the ball in her court (which it seems you have done) and leave it alone. She knows that you want to meet up, you already asked her a few times, no need to keep going.

Just text her and say something along the lines of "Hang out with me one day next week" or "have a coffee with me one day this week". Make it a command not a question like "will you hang out with me one day next week?". Commanding. If she ignores you or flakes you for the third time, next her. You're wasting your time man. But give it one last go.

Hope this helps

Sly-Mike

that is so russian...
you are Russian or other Slavic origin aren't you?

to the point, there is not need to do something special, doing special things it's for special occasions, yet there is nothing special, you barely know her, and you already afraid to lose her, cause you want to say the right thing that make her go out with you, it's called needy and women sniff it, you automatically lose points and then her.

good luck
~Vlad

try wait a week without talking to her and see if she restarts the chat. Try calling her too and don't depend so much on text. Ask her out on the phone, and i'd say don't use the movie date, as its probably boring and predictable, take her to somewhere theres alot of ppl closed in (like a flea market) or just somewhere different. Other posters right though, balls in her court

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The best thing you can do here, is increase the amount of women you have in your 'pipeline'

Get about 10-15 new numbers first before continuing with this girl that you like.

Try to go out on several other dates and meet new girls before you invest any more into this girl.

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oke so now i didnt talk to this girl for 1,5day tomorrow will be day 2,5 that i did not talk,
but she is still liking my fb status and the photo's that i post on instagram.

thats weard right? why would she still do that but not talk to me out of her self?

best regards, peace out!
plz help dont know it any more

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get big or die trying.

You're overanalysing. Be more chill and less uptight. And yeah, try calling instead of texting.

it's because she is a woman they mostly give signs of interest, she is trying to remind you, about her, just call her and ask her again.

so thats another day to add "not talking" so im thinking maby i should really go talk to her, but i want her to mis me and let her talk to me first. its so difficult for me to not talk. but then im thinking if i go talk righ now, thats akward to...

damm it, im so stupid when its about woman. it makes me so nerves.

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she won't talk to you that how the things work.
you got to learn how to lose before you can be a winner.

thanks for your reaction but can you explain that a little more please.
best regards

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since you asked nicely.
i know you came here because you are looking for something, and i think it's big and you are amazed, then so you understand it's deep meaning, how everything you have become aware of those who seek more understanding, more wisdom and more connection like you do right or not?
it is obvious that sooner or later as you read these words and think your thoughts, you begin to understand or forget everything that connects to your nervousness, and you can begin to understand that those who told me about those that told that understanding it not for learning, but only to experience lived thought long experiences together that nobody of them could explain in words that dressed closed doors of many brains but wanted instead to find a place to grow and prosper, it's now you know not only one that knows is you, that it was never been easier to imagine or understand as these words you reading and thinking about them you find them pleasing as you accepting them, to and even so or other way not this changing your thinking making your process go on and on, therefore it's not as it seems and it feels you beginning to feeling comfort as, time is passing and clock ticking in your mind, as you thinking about her, some things not change, for now while this happening you let this feeling be remembered as strong as rock and deep as the ocean so this memory, for now just imagine how surprised you will be when you will wake up tomorrow morning and you will find out that your feeling changed towards this girl.
already feeling calm right?

It's an interesting situation that one. But I read she's liking your images and status on social networks when you don't talk to her, and I believe those are considered IOI's, since she's trying to make you talk to her. For us men, we feel very weird if we constantly talk a woman and she doesn't even talks back, but some women are just like that, some of them just wanna be sure you can make a constant effort of looking for them so they can realize who really likes her and who doesn't. I believe you should take her on a second date, or maybe try to take her little brother to some place and have fun with him, so she can trust you and get more connection. If you don't think this is going to work or something, you should tell her something like "I'm gonna drop by the mall this days to get a pair of shoes or whatever, you should come by".

thanks for your reaction but can you explain that a little more please.
best regards[/quote]
since you asked nicely.
i know you came here because you are looking for something, and i think it's big and you are amazed, then so you understand it's deep meaning, how everything you have become aware of those who seek more understanding, more wisdom and more connection like you do right or not?
it is obvious that sooner or later as you read these words and think your thoughts, you begin to understand or forget everything that connects to your nervousness, and you can begin to understand that those who told me about those that told that understanding it not for learning, but only to experience lived thought long experiences together that nobody of them could explain in words that dressed closed doors of many brains but wanted instead to find a place to grow and prosper, it's now you know not only one that knows is you, that it was never been easier to imagine or understand as these words you reading and thinking about them you find them pleasing as you accepting them, to and even so or other way not this changing your thinking making your process go on and on, therefore it's not as it seems and it feels you beginning to feeling comfort as, time is passing and clock ticking in your mind, as you thinking about her, some things not change, for now while this happening you let this feeling be remembered as strong as rock and deep as the ocean so this memory, for now just imagine how surprised you will be when you will wake up tomorrow morning and you will find out that your feeling changed towards this girl.
already feeling calm right?[/quote]

You are a hero u know that? this really makes me calm im really really happy with you comment!

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