So yesterday, i took this girl out i met at a bus station awhile back to this festival. Everything went great,at first she was so shy she wouldn't even look at me while i was trying to kiss close. Ended up turning a good girl bas. Rest of the night was us making out, touching and grinding. It was amazing best night i had with a girl(still young) the thing is she told me she dosen't wanna be exclusive(which i don't mind) we practically agreed to have a friend with benifits kind of relationship.mostly cause she dosen't want a relationship and before we started she said it was between me and this shy kid in her class(i think i took a bit more than half after that night) i diden't mind told her it's cool with me and we should just enjoy ourselves and i it feels tight then it feels right no pressure. So now the date passed, as i left the bus told her to msg me when she gets home, she did then i asked her if she had a good time and she replied with a simple 'yep'. So i just said 'great, we'll do something else soon too, just message me when you can' she diden't reply nor even seen my message. So now i kinda wanna see her again try to f-close or just hang out since she is so cool. What should i do next? How should i proceed? I know she will be very busy during the march break. Any help?

This girl has other exercisable options. You should too. You should exercise said options. Once you have done so at least once, make her an option again.

Relationships should be a two way street at all levels. If every interaction with someone is through your initiation, then it is too important to you and not important enough to her. You should have a standard of relationships that requires others to put in some effort to initiate interaction with you, beyond just accepting your request for time.

Stop initiating with her. If she fails to initiate then you have not wasted your time. If you initiate then you perpetuate the one-sided relationship and chode-like behavior on your part.

Don't be someone's bitch.

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How can you be a " friend with benefits" when the only benefit is grinding? You should always try and have a full funnel ( multiple girls that you are talking to). This will prevent you from freaking out and over analyzing texts.

In this case, there's not much you can control EXCEPT how willing you are to walk away. That's your power, friend.

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Listen to these guys. I honestly wish I had a group of guys telling me this sort of stuff during my bouts of One-itises. Don't make her your priority when you're just an option.

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Probably the best advice i have ever gotten on this forum. I'm still quite new at this and can forget these simple things from time to time. Thanks mates i stopped initiating and now the ball is in her court. I'm learning more and more everyday. Thanks