Okay through some random act of daygame, I got this girls number. She was cute, a bit older than me and we had a decent convo so I thought what the hell. Let me put some effort into this.
I later find out she has a kid and works full time.

I went through my usual texting game, flirting being a bit of an asshole, keeping some distance and it was going well, she was eating out of my hands.

Now i'm a student and real world time frames don't apply to me so when I'm free, she usually isn't and i usually forget this.

The issue of setting up a day 2 came up twice.

First time I asked for a Day 2 earlier on (well I didn't ask, I told her when we would have a day 2. I was leading), she said she had to work and after had a kid to take care of so I brushed it off and consciously told myself not to ask for a day 2 too soon and wait for a weekend to ask her out again so I wouldn't look too desperate.

So I continued texting her and had a few calls not asking for a meet but dropped hints of the possibilities if we did. Then after a few sexually flirty texts. She sends these two texts one after the other

Her: Oh my god, I'm so horny right now
Her: when are we meeting up?

Now I'm thinking Jackpot. I've got her to ask me. So I tell her again when I'd be free but same freaking issue comes up! The kid and work !hahaha but at least she said she'll tell me when she can make it.
Granted I was stupid to tell her another weekday. I wasn't thinking straight, she was just so hot the though of banging her clouded my mind.

So question is should I

1. wait until she gives me a time she'll be free? (I don't like that she's in control of that but then again I have to understand. She has other priorities)

2. Suggest another day to meet up. (Again I feel this would make me look needy)

Hey bro, fun problem to have right? lol. Don't know all the details, but sounds like you have a decent instinct for these things. Have you read anything on text game?

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Get a feel for when she will be free, get her worked up again just prior!

Clues; 'My ex is taking the kid tomorrow' 'My kid is going to grandma's tomorrow.'

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haha yeah fun and frustrating.

When it come's to text game I've always been good, I guess its just years of trial and error. My usual M.O. is acting a bit narcissistic but funny with sexual overtones. I also give them stupid nicknames and make it like she's chasing me.

The two things I read though which helped me massively weren't necessarily text game specific. It was just the leading thing and being scarce. Basically leaving on an extremely high note and ignoring her for a while, hours and sometimes a day or two then coming back like nothing happened and saying you were busy/at a party or something if she asked

Sounds like a plan! Thanks.
It will be a bit hard to sneak her kid into the conversation though. I try not to get into deep topics like that over text, prefer them in person. So if I don't find an opening, I guess I'd be playing the waiting game.

A simple how's (insert kid here)? It will just a a smidgen of value anyway.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.