I am seeing this girl and we've slept together a few times now. It's going well.

I was just wondering how I can go about getting a BJ though?

I only ask because sometimes she has been on her period and sometimes we haven't
got a condom.

Any ideas?

Do oral sex to her and then pretend that she has to do the same thing with you. Dunno if this works, but it's an idea

Don't ask. Just kiss her then once she's relaxed, push her head onto your cock. See Joe Pescy with Sharon Stone from the Casino movie.

I thought about the whole pushing the head down, it just seemed rather vulgar.

Depends what kind of frame you set from the beginning. I screen women out to save time. I say things like "I only like sexually submissive women. Sexually dominant women are a huge turn-off for me." then I make women call me master and follow orders to test their submissiveness. If they don't follow my lead, I shit-test them. If they still don't bite I just pump and dump.

If you haven't been sexually aggressive from the outset, then pushing her head down is going to seem incongruent. Which is even more reason to be a dominant from the outset. A girl who won't give head won't last longer than 2x weeks with me. I expect the same standard from women with guys who won't lick pussy.

Ah that makes more sense.

I suppose really we've both been pretty submissive. I've been more dominate though.

I'll just become even more dominate so it's congruent, it works well because it will catch her off guard.

Enhancing her attraction.

I sometimes have a look behind the headboard of the bed on the wall, I tell her there is something on the wall that is annoying me. (Whilst shoving my dick in her face)

Obviously I'm joking, obviously she knows that I'm joking..

Just a bit of a funny cheeky spin on it , it works for me

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Just ask?

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At this moment you guys should be pretty comfortable if youve had sex a couple of times. Id say while on the topic of sex, favorite positions blah blah blah, ask her what she thinks about oral, if shes ever recieved it or given it. then ask her if she would try it with you, if she asks you if you would return the favor, say you would be willing, in a not so despirate, but comfortably excited tone, like as if she asked you to watch a cool movie. Mind all this is comfort building so use a comforting tone and setting. build the mood

Alof of girls just won't talk about sex like that , can cause a lot of un-necessary resistance

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If shes having sex with you but she wont talk about it with you, then you must be doing something wrong

My bad, I thought the op still hasn't sexed her yet

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To be fair I could easily just ask her and talk to her about it, I probably will do now.

I just wanted something smoother than asking. It seems pretty submissive and beta.

You've got to get into her head.. if you want to get head.

What's always worked for me is:

1. I keep myself so clean. if I go to a girl's house, I take baby wipes, to make certain that my under-carriage smells like a fucking 3 day old puppy.

2. As I'm biting her, kissing her, and running my hands and mouth over her body, I say stuff like "there's nowhere that I don't want to kiss, I want to taste every inch of your body, I want us to *share* every inch of ourselves with each other". I pay special attention when I go down on her to show her that I'm loving every minute of tasting her, like I'm starved and someone just put a fucking fresh mango in my mouth!! And I constantly tell her how good she tastes and smells. I even pause and just look at her pussy and say stuff like "god that's just beautiful, I'm never leaving your pussy alone!"

3. I'm 6" at full salute, so I guess my medium size is less threatening.. one of the benefits of not having a baseball bat for a cock. My buddy is hung like a wildebeest and his girl won't blow him very often as she tells me "he torments me with it"

I believe it's for these reasons that I get a BJ 95% of the time. And most of my girlfriends have been BJ addicts, I used to have to physically remove my Ukrainian ex-girl from my cock because she was so obsessed.

With oral sex, you literally get out what you put in with your girl.

Coolhand.

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