I hooked up with this girl at a party. Found out she was 17 (I'm 19 btw) so I didn't phuck her but she showed hella interest and was down. Got her number and red her the next day but play of cool. Tell her on Wednesday that I had a great time and wanna see her next weekend. Tell her we are having a party Friday. I am near blacked out by 9:30 Friday and she isn't there. Text her and tell her to come over she says she is on the other side of town but will come over later. Go to bed at 3 am and she is still on other side of town. Go to a different party Saturday which she isn't at. Text her to come over again but sound way less desperate. Then I think she doesn't want to be just a hookup so I ask her to coffee and make small conversation over text but this makes her seem like she wants me way less. Tell her I can't actually do coffee but she should actually go over this weekend. She read it and never texted back. I had an amazing connection with this girl but screwed up over texting.... She turns 18 in 2 weeks and I wanted to text her to keep interest until then

Pushing is never good !

Yeah, I think you insisted a bit too much. Try giving it some time, about 2-3 weeks and then ask her out again; say your friend bailed out on you and you'd appreciate some company and that she'll do. Make it sound as casual as possible.

I asked her to hangout this weekend already so should I still try to got brought with that? We are in the same loose social circle so there is a good chance I'm going to see her around at parties in the future even if I never text her or ask her out again. A little background info on me and why I think this happened. I am a freshman in college. In high school I struggled greatly with girls and didn't even tongue kiss a girl until I got here last fall and still have confidence issues due to that. I thought I was through that stage in my life but apparently after a power hour and feeling of abandonment from her not coming to my party I turn into needy low confident afc high school me all over again.

Forget her, there's other fish in the sea. If you do see her again play it cool, you can chat her up but act like you don't give a fuck about her blowing you off and can't even remember it cuz you've talked to too many girls since then.

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