I hope somebody can help me out with this. So i met this girl around 3 years ago and we used to talk a lot. At that time she wasn't that attractive, lived really far from me so nothing happened. We would text each other from time to time but nothing really happend. I hangout with her and her friend and was flriting and could feel the vibe but again due to the distance and not seeing each other too often, it kind of fizzled away.

She started going to the same university as me this semester and looks extremely gorgeous. We hung out twice the first week, went to the mall and i was flirting with her a lot and overall vibe was great. I did not kiss close her as i wanted to do it on a date as i actuallly want to make this a LTR ( it was a mistake and i realize it now).
Every time we hangout, the vibe is great however that vibe is missing while texting and couple of times she did not reply which i simply ignore.

We hung out again this Monday and again i kept the flirty SPAM and asked her out this saturday. First she said that she doesnt have plans but her friends may tell her whats going on ( she said it in a funny way to sound like shes really popular and people invite her- she said it in a sarcastic way) to which i replied that " tell them you already have plans with me" and she was like okay!

I was dropping her off and she says i will see sometime soon to which i replies " Saturday" and she pretended that she had forgotten and was like " oh ill let you know about that, if i time" - again she said it a funny sarcastic way like she was joking and said " ill text you...Ill let text you".

Anyways she has not said anything about her date and I didnt text her either. Tomorrow is Saturday night and i am not sure what to do. I dont' want to sound needy but at the same time i really do want to go out with her.

What should i do?



ps: sorry about the rant, sometimes it just feels to good to type it all out

By asking her on Saturday night screams needy

What's wrong with just letting her go out with her mates? You should be using your Saturdays for you.

She said she is busy, no biggy, pick Sunday or something

Girls are allowed to have plans and you shouldn't think she is being flakey for not meeting on prime weekend day

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I agree - Saturday date is very intense and a big commitment for fora girl to make early on. Stick with weekdays until you've slept with her a few times or she requests a weekend. Not only is it harder to get get a commitment for Saturday but you also also want her to know you have an active social life outside of her and have plans of your own. Very important to most women.

Agreed. Massive DLV going for Saturday meet unless she suggests it in the 1st place..

Fri & Sat night should be avoided in my opinion. Sunday is fine for me but they might be hung over and more likely to flake.

Mid-week is perfect, 5 days to choose. Majority of girls just watch TV soaps mid week.

Go out with mates in the weekend and hook up with more girls for you to date mid week

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