Hey all,
I somehow lucked out one random evening last night in a strip club. Apologies in advance if this field report sounds a bit like I'm showing off, trust me I'm not. I'm as amazed at the outcome as you!
So I essentially just stuck with natural game (I'm quite a friendly guy and don't tend to have AA and can build comfort and attraction quite well) and kept to the rules of picking up a stripper (mindful of fake IOIs, kino, keep conversation unsexual as a start) and this HB8 slim Brazilian babe really (apparently) took a liking to me and stayed with me pretty much the whole night unpaid! I did have 1 single dance with her midway thru but nothing else and she wasn't pushing for more dances or private rooms. I think we actually had a good connection and I continued to DHV.
There was a point during the night when she had to go dance on centre stage and another girl came to sit with me (HB7CB!) and started getting quite pushy with wanting a dance. So essentially I just waited out for my girl to come back and when she did...boy oh boy was it amazing!
you know when u see 2 girls eyeing each other like their about to fight, that was essentially it! I felt like a legitimate pimp at that point! So obviously I was going to use the situation to my advantage and didn't attempt to make Hb8 jealous but was the friendly guy letting the 2 girls fight over my attention
no money was spent during this 30minute interaction and in the end I challenged them to have a dance off! And they did and gave them each a lap dance too (guys if u ever go toa strip club and get past comfort and attraction points and dance for them - the funnier the better, it is a winning strategy
) free dances for all FTW!
Ok so coming up to the point I'm going to leave (I wasn't planning on getting a number or anything as WGs didn't appeal to me at all) and she pulls me by the hand to another room and dances with me (normal club dancing) so I did some dance gaming with her (spinning her, lifting etc) and at this point she just grabbed my face and gave a me a brief but deep kiss.
so I threw her to the floor and caught her Latino dance style
I've never seen a girl like being thrown around so much!
So when we sat down something completely unexpected happened. She asked me for my number and said she really really likes me a lot. So naturally I thought nothing is too good to be true, but I took her number down anyway and missed dialled her and went out for a smoke. In the space of those 20mins (I was gaming some other girls outside while I was there
smirting us the best!) I received 4 messages from her (exactly the same msg) saying "hey it's me XXXXX lol really like you x" which was nice
So I returned to the table and she came over again and asked if I got her texts and i said "I dunno, let me check." Take phone out "yep got it" with a complete emotionless face
and she says "cool now u got my number u HAVe to call me sometime and we should go out!" And I said tht I would but I'm a busy guy so will let her know. We said our goodbyes and another quick kiss (the bouncers didn't see thank god!)
I texted her 30mins later saying "hey xxxxx want to have a coffee tomorrow? X"
In retrospect I think it was a bit afc text, I shoulda been more affirmative rather than asking a question (let's go for a coffee tomorrow), but I was drunk at that point and wanted my bed.
She replies immediately and says "yes babe why not. Call me tmr1pm ok xx like u loads. Love u xx"
And there was another couple of texts after but just to clarify her time we should go out.
Anyway fast forward today, I call her at 1.15pm and she doesn't pick up. So I'm ready to just about write it off as a flake so just texted her "morning xxxxx call me back when u awake x are u working tonight? If not let's grab dinner. "
Again afc suggestion. Dinner = bad idea but I changed it later.
Around 2hr30m later she texts "gonna call u in a bit ok x"
I reply. Cool x.
No call for another hour and I decide to be a bit cocky funny and texted her something gangsta in Brazilian slang
and then follow up with let's go to xxxxx bar tonight x.
Another hour passes and she texted back a loooong txt saying she really does wanna go out for dinner with me and likes me a lot (she keeps saying this? Does it sound fake?) but she has to work tonight and said she needs to make more money to pay the rent for this week. Lets lEave it to fri or sat when I'm off. Sorry darling is that ok? Xx
10mins later she texts call me pls x
So I call her after 30mins and she picks up this time. Now this is the part I kinda regret as I don't think I was on form. I had a stinking hangover and having slept 2hrs the previous night and then going into work my brain was not functioning. The conversation was ok but just covered some chumpy stuff like food, party places we go to, what she's up to (she was making dinner) and stuff abt YoLo. She did remember that I wouldn't tell her how old I was (I'm 32 but look 25 :p) so she remembered that told me I HAVe to tell her but I said she needs to guess and if she gets it right I might reward her with a prize :p I ended up trying to DHV a bit more by telling her I going partying again tonight and she should come. She did suggest to come down to the club to see her if I'm in town (was she trying to get more business??)
// short update - I read up on text game a bit and maintaining attraction levels. Got an IMMEDIATE response
"Omg...guess what?"
"What?"
"I'm chapado ( means pissed in Portuguese) already. I think last nights drink is still in me"
"lol really? U know Portuguese very well mmm. Come to c me later x"
"Will u cook churrasco for me if I come? X" (picking up a thread we had on the phone earlier talking abt Brazilian food and how she would make a good wife some day.)
Anyway but a long long story short, after the convo ended I didn't feel like the attraction was as much there as it was last night and strippers typically have super short attention spans. So here's my questions and I'd appreciate any responses from the pua community on this:
- is she just trying to get me to go to the club to see her and send more money?
- is there a hidden agenda as this is farrrr too good to be true
- if she doesn't flake by Friday, what would u suggest as the day 2 plan? With friends in a mixed group setting or just fly solo and escalate and f-close?
- what strategy can I use to keep attraction relatively high until Friday (2days time)?
CHAT
