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Alright here is the deal, first date was a hit, (after a couple of flakes) arranged for a date 2 but then again flaked again....this girl told me I'm exactly like what she wants, (we're both looking for ltr and we both came from ltr's) she tells me the ''keys to her heart" and got upset when I ruined the surprise I had planned for her after she flaked.

This girl hides from her problems with work and school, flakes on everyone, and because she's been hurt before refuses to open up again.

How do you bring that security back to someone? She will barely (rarely) start a convo, take days to reply, if she even does reply, but when she does she shows extreme interest and flirtiness so I have no doubt she is interested.

So once again how would you bring a girl like that out of her cave? So far I've gone for a slightly friendly but still flirtatious approach, clearly showing interest but in a cocky way. She will sometimes talk about "hot guys" but in a general sense, never anything specific, is that a shit test or am I friendzoned?

Thanks in advance for all the help!