Should I push for sex anywhere or where she wanted/hinted a bed?

I need help with logistics diversion ideas.
1. Met on POF, at bar meetup I took this 6.5 into Mens bathroom broom closet. Ate her out, everything but penetration sex. She lightly LMR mentioning wanting sex on bed. She lied about agreeing to meet me sans panties.
2. Next day crickets to my 2 emails
3. 2 days later *69 and called her, secured 2nd date
4. I plan on meeting at comfort location (she wants a dinner) then move move bounce to drinks, then move to sex location.
5. Sex location is hotel ($50) within walking distance of the comfort location and 2 other places to bounce.

Think my weaknesses may have been too needy, no emotional connection developed. I could driver her around in my vehicle but it is shit, I sleep in it, its like chitty chitty bang band.

I REALLY NEED THIS, as she has active lactation. Yes I know I am a pervert.
Please help, no sex since 7 weeks.

It sound's like you're chasing. 2 emails in one day, then *69 to hide your number. I know it's hard once you get a bite not to fixate, but if you chase, they'll usually run.

I hate you, you were right. She ran!

No oneitis, Im on to the next one but I am going to send this:
Honestly, I just got back into the dating scene recently. If you don't mind could you give me some feedback? As a teacher I have always tried to take knowledge where I can find it.

You are not my type: y n
I find you attractive/not attractive: y n
You came across as a needy person: y n
You came across as desperate for sex/ relationship: y n
You came across as try-hard: y n
You came across as approval seeking: y n
You are not Masculine enough, too Beta malish: y n
I wish you would have gone all the way that night: y n
You were too sexual too quick: y n
You did not develop enough of an emotional connection with me: y n
You are too much of a nice guy for my tastes: y n
You seem to have a weak personality: y n
I want to be poly amorous and I perceived you as wanting a relationship: y n
You are not socially savy enough for my tastes: y n
You're too intense: y n
You seem to have some signs of crazy in a scary way: y n
You don't perceive me as a leader of men: y n
I'm not the kind of guy most other women would like: y n
Because you had to secure your own way home you perceived that I am not a person that is a strong protector or can easily ensure you comfort and safety: y n
Thanks.
I wish you the best, no hard feelings. Cheers
I have nothing to lose by doing so, no?

Dude, if she doesn't make the time to reply to your email, then she definitely isn't invested enough to fill out your survey. You need to fill out your own survey honestly, you know what vibe you are sending out. We all need to be honest with ourselves because, everyone knows when we aren't, ourselves included. We need to do as Julian from RSD says, "align our thoughts, words, and actions."