This girl, a bit of a flopper, finally went on first date, went great, no kclose. Planned Second date, she said she had a really shitty day and didnt feel like going out (i just said fuck it, probably should've chased her a little more)

Here is the quick convo last wednesday, this happened over facebook, I had a fuck it moment

me: Soo what are you saying next friday?

Her:Yes!

me: haha I was thinking going for movie and getting some food after

her: sounds good

Me: Awesome, I'll give you a call a lil bit closer to the date

her: alrighty

soo what just happened? Does this sound like a sure thing? this was last Wed, how long should I wait to contact her again? Haven't really heard since, she's not a very text friendly girl with anyone.

Thanks in advance!

Her agreeing on Wed to meet you on Fri leaves a lot of room for flaking. You should call/text her again latest Fri noon and set the details, like "do I pick you up at 8 or 9?". Have a back-up plan ready if she bails out. Don't wait until the last minute to call her, she may have forgotten about what she said two days ago...