| I just had some really strange first date.. im stil AFC, but i know some routines and basics.. and had some really nice girls and dates.. but this one.. don't know what to think about it.
There was just a girl at my home for the first time.. we had a really nice talk for like 1 1/2 hours, laughed, chatted. etc. after 1 hour or something she gave me ioi's, laughed about silly jokes, played with her hair.. she looked really interested in me.. then I tried to kiss her, but she said "not yet"
Didn't made a big deal out of it, cause i basically didn't care.. then i putted on a movie.. first we where sitting seperate, still talked and laughed while watching the movie, came closer, holded hands.. then i commanded her to lay on my lap.. she did.. still holding hands.. cuddling a bit.. so I thought okay of course I can kiss her now! so again I tried! but then she said "not on the first date".. and i was oke.. no big deal..
Then after the movie she had to go cause it was already late, I drove her to the train station, she was holding my hands while driving.. when we arrived whe kissed me goodbye on the lips,, but more a kiss with open mouth, a kiss like "kiss me back".. so I tried! and again no fucking kiss!!
I have never experienced something like this.. this is even the first time I've been on a date without kissing! And I really thought she was into me.. holding hands, cuddeling.. wtf are there still girls like that in the year 2014 who won't kiss on the first date.. but will hold hands and cuddle! or am I missing something here!
I know i should not worry just about 1 girl.. so i won't.. but really i want to bang her.. she is definatly a 10. And i want to learn from this expierence, what I did wrong, so next time it wont happen again.
Also what to do next!, I do want to see her again! should i text her first! and when ?
She just gave me a lot of ioi's.. also playing with hair, laughing with upper teeth showen, etc. but no kissing.. Or was she just beeing nice because there was just the 2 of us.. I dont know.. _________________ "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."
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