Alright guys, so here's the scoop. On New Year's met this HB9 (I've actually known her for many years and have just recently starting to hang out. Mostly going to bars with mutual friends) and really hit it off. We were making out, dancing but I lost contact with her at some point in the night and just went home then fell asleep. She came back to the same house I was at while I was asleep, but fell asleep in a different bed. So the next weekend she asks me to meet her at another bar, however, this time she is sober because she has things to do in the morning. Things went great, but again no closing. When she left (I was a few beers deep at this point) I sent her the following text:

Me:"Congratulations! You made the cut! You have received an official drunk text from Anon!"
Her: "Wow do I feel honored! !
Me: "You should! Seriously though, not many people make the cut, it's very exclusive"

She wanted to hang out on Sunday, however, I couldn't due to work priorities in the morning. I feel like I should , "strike the iron while it's hot" and not wait too long before it fizzles out. Any suggestions? Should I meet up this week, or just wait for the weekend?

I appreciate any advice you all have to offer

Sounds like you're doing fine. If you chose to meet during the week I would put a time constraint on it, keep it short and make plans that will set you up for a solid close on the weekend. There's no need to set records with how many meetings occur before the close. In fact seeing her during the week without the close will make her more comfortable for the weekend.

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Thanks for the advice! Any suggestions for what I should ask? I'm thinking tomorrow would be a good day to ask to meetup. especially since I haven't texted her in couple days now.

I would make it something casual something you were probably going to do anyway. Coffee after your drop off dry cleaning and before you go to visit your sick grandmother. (These are just examples, please don't lie about going to see your sick grandmother.) Maybe ask her to help you find a present for someone. My birthday's coming up you can buy me something pretty. (sorry, I've got a poor since of forum humor). I'd break the text ice with some jokes. Something that forces an IOI. Send a picture of you doing something completely ridiculous with your hair and ask her if it's a good look for you.(just a suggestion) I like doing this because it creates a IOI no matter her answer. If she doesn't laugh, you can just say "oh i guess I looked better the other night?" and if she goes along with the joke it's an IOI. This can seq-way into well I've got a bunch of blah to do today. Why don't you come help me out. (find hair gel?)

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Again! today we were texting, things were going great. I was throwing out negs and she was eating it up. Then out of nowhere, no response back. Why does this keep happening?!

Relax man. Real life happens. If she's as hot as you say she is then she's got alot going on for her. In my experience with HB's they drop all forms of virtual interaction for the real deal. It's hard to blame her, which would you choose, texting some chic or a game of lazer tag with friends? If it bothers you just adjust the frame. The next time you text her neg her for leaving you hanging. Ride her about it for a little while Then you can have her make it up to you by having her take you out somewhere...

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Great advice man. Way to put it into perspective... looks like the AFC inside got loose again. I haven't done anything today but i'll make sure I come up with some witty neg to ask her for a drink downtown tomorrow.

She's not that into you dude and just finds you slightly amusing. She prob has a boyfriend, many blokes chasing her and you are well down the list. Move on.

Yeah dude, you should strike the iron while it's still hot. The doors of opportunity won't be open forever and it will never be a perfect time to step through them. So step through them now, because tomorrow you may miss your chance.

The way you should set up the date is that you send her a casual message like the ones you sent her before, and after that set up a date.

You don't have to go through elaborate scams to set the date. When she replies to your first message you reply to her message and on the end of the message you state something like this: "Coffee Thursday at 15?"

And that's it.

On the date sit next to her and go for the makeout. Then propose to go to your place because "it's quieter there and today you are feeling a bit uneasy in big crowds".

Be active, fast and vigilant. Women love that.

Yeh that's right. Sound like a big pussy and say oh it's too crowded in here. Come back to my place. She'll never guess in a million years you want to fuck her and btw Somethinggood27, all these negs you're throwing out and thinking she's eating up .... errr no dude. Don't flatter yourself cuz she 'ain't eating it up otherwise she'd be going out with you, you bozo.

You guys are too lame, too predictable and too desperate and the girls enjoy the effort you're putting in but that's it. Your desperation makes them feel good and that's as far as these so called 'relationships' by text you assholes are having will go. If these girls were really into you they'd want to be with you but from where I'm sitting you're all failing miserably because you don't respect or think of girls as your equal. You think of them as objects, something to fool around with, give you a hard on and to make you feel special especially around other blokes. Look what I've got!! You also punch wayyyyy above your weight, pick out the good looking ones and really believe they should adore an ugly asshole like you. Pick girls on your own ugly level and stop thinking you're entited to every hot girl you fancy.

Try treating them as human beings as well you fucking morons and you may get somewhere.

Digital,

I was actually able to close on Saturday after meeting her at a bar. Thank you everyone else for your helpful advice!