Merry christmas people!

It just dawned upon me that I regurarly go on dates with hot chicks that I like. The problem however is that the first date usually kills the chemistry.

The cycle goes something like this:

Amazing interaction, including kiss-close or F-close and interesting dialouge => cool and fun texting ( I don´t call girls often even though I am a professional phone sales representive) => Akward date (usually coffe or movie) => usually dies here, no more contact with the girl => even lamer second date.

Around 80 % of the girls I´ve slept with have banged me within the first two hours. It seems my game is solid during the initial interaction but fails later on.

what I´m asking for is this:
What are your best date locations in Stockholm?

- Where do you meet the girl?
- where do you take her?
-Where do you kiss her?

Please give me tips for dating locations during the summer respectively in the winter. I live in Mörby Centrum and prefer to have the date there or in the city.


Additional info: I live by myself, I am 19 y/o and am currently studying.

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Ok, i can't answer much, but i wan't to give back since i received some information myself and i'm a strong believer in Arnold S.

Anyway, i had 2 dates in Stockholm during the last 3 weeks.
The first girl i met out in Sodermalm during a night out. Kissed her but not much more. Since i talked with her about how good my Chili Con Carne is. I then texted her 2 days later and asked her if she wanted to come by my place and taste my carne(the food, nothing else). She said yes. It's a proven fact that in Sweden more girls are willing to go on a home-date. Which is very good for us here. Makes it easier. Ate, drank some wine and talked. Later i put on a comedy, laughed hard and later on i started kissing her and etc..

Date 2.
Met a girl through an online app. Asked her to go out with me for some drinks. NO dinner.
She accepted and met up at Tiki bar which lies on Kungsholmen. An hawaiian inspired place, with music from the 60's, 70s. They have a cocktail level which suits perfectly for dating. Suited perfectly. Before i went on the date i read alot about momentum. Which means you should escalate pretty quickly. That means, kiss her within the first 2-3 hours. Which was what i did. Before the conversation went dull.
Maybe this is where you go wrong. That you don't escalate quickly enough.

Looking forward on hearing, how the next date goes. Keep us posted.

Nice thanks for reply man. Yeah I agree with you on date 1, it is fairly easy to get girls home. I´ve had most of my dates home. However, I´m experimenting with getting to know the girl better before sex. I want to be viewed as a guy who takes her to cool different places.

Which app are you talking about in date 2? I´ve used Badoo with great success. There are lots of good looking girls there.

Since posting this post I´ve downloaded the app "whatsup" it has lists and maps of a ton of cool places in Stockholm. I recommend it to you to if you live in the area:)

It is possible true as you say that I don´t escalate quickly on dates. I usually kissclose the first five minutes in real life but I wait on dates. However I feel my biggest sticking point is that I get bored with girls and for that I think cool venues could help spice things up for me.

Actually just came back from a date in a shopping mall (täby centrum), we spend three hours looking at clothes, eating dinner, having a drink and talking. She even offered for me to come with her to her friend she was going to. So shopping malls can probably work for me.

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

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